You Get a Little More Comfortable
Now, this can be a good or bad thing for some couples, depending on how you look at it. When you were dating, you never let him see you in your head scarf or pimple cream at night. You probably NEVER passed gas in front of him while you were dating either – and maybe some things should just remain a mystery. But after marriage, you might feel a little more free to show him a side of you he’s never seen before because you’ve settled into a comfort level that makes you both feel at ease with each other enough to let your guard down a little. Now I’m not suggesting that you completely let yourself go and you become some sort of farting slob. But it’s also good to know you have someone who loves you even when you’re not showing your most attractive self. Now, you can jump in the shower while he’s sitting on the toilet , or you can wear sweats instead of sexy lingerie EVERY time you share the bed like you did when you were dating. That doesn’t mean that you retire your lingerie completely or stop wearing makeup. It just means that if you decide to wear your oversized pj’s or go bare-faced one day, he’ll still find you as sexy as he always has, because you’re his wife.