A little bit of both
The mom and daughter battle is a never-ending one that only gets worse when the daughter doesn’t give in. You know how, when your girlfriend didn’t want to hear excuses as to why you weren’t paying her enough attention, she just wanted to be loved? That’s how her mother feels—she doesn’t want excuses from her daughter, she just wants to know her daughter wants to be with her. Remind your girlfriend that yes, moms are nags, but it’s all out of love.