“I’m Not My Sister’s Keeper, I Am My Sister” 10 Lessons From Iyanla’s Wounded Women Follow Up

Ayanna is not sure that Jay is the father of her child

Ayanna admitted during this follow up episode that she wasn’t sure about the paternity of the child she kept referencing in the “Fix My Life” episodes. She tried to gloss past that statement. But Iyanla made her slow down a bit. She admitted that she had been with two different men within a 28 day period. Ayanna said she slept with another man as a way to get over Jay. You know, operating under the “the best way to get over a man is to get under a new one” principle. Instead of shaming Ayanna, Iyanla asked women in the audience if they had behaved similarly by jumping into a new relationship before they had achieved closure from the last one. We may or may not have slept with two man in a short time span but rushing into something when we have unfinished business, within ourselves, is quite common.