“I’m Not My Sister’s Keeper, I Am My Sister” 10 Lessons From Iyanla’s Wounded Women Follow Up
Giving your power away
In the last episode, where Iyanla spoke to the mothers of Jay’s childen, Chantau said that she never wanted her children in this position and it was all Jay’s fault. But on the follow up episode, Iyanla made sure to let her know that wasn’t the case. Instead, she asked Chantau to acknowledge not only her responsibility in the situation but also the fact that she willingly gave her power up to Jay.