Ask A Very Smart Brotha: I Like Him But He’s Too Short…

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Rhonda: Is it safe to say when a woman becomes a certain age, is the market for meeting decent men slim? I am not having any luck meeting anyone. I have tried dating sites, no luck. Guys will speak and look but don’t approach. What am I doing wrong?

DY: It’s true that, as we age, the market slims. But it’s also true that, as we age, we become more comfortable in our own skin and more aware of what we want. Which also slims the market. But this isn’t a bad thing. Maybe you’re not having much luck as far as numbers go, but you’re also better equipped to make a good decision when you do find someone.

Pittsburgh native Damon Young (aka “The Champ”) is the co-founder of the ridiculously popular Their first book “Your Degrees Won’t Keep You Warm At Night: The Very Smart Brothas Guide To Dating, Mating and Fighting Crime” is available at 

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