Questions You Should Ask Your “Rainbeau Man” Before You Get Serious
When the time is right, ask for some casual hangout time with his friends “If you get close to his friends, you’ll have a better idea of what’s going on there. If his closest friends are people who scare you, or people you really don’t like, pay attention to what that tells you about your rainbeau,” says Dr. Tessina.
Christelyn D. Karazin is the co-author of Swirling: How to Date, Mate and Relate Mixing Race Culture and Creed (to be released February 2012), and runs a blog, www.beyondblackwhite.com, dedicated to women of color who are interested and or involved in interracial and intercultural relationships. She is also the founder and organizer of “No Wedding, No Womb,” an initiative to find solutions to the 72 percent out-of-wedlock rate in the black community.
