Thoughts Your Lover Has But Never Tells You

4)  The STDs, orgies and threesomes. Oh my!

Unless you’re in a relationship with a virgin, more than likely your partner has somewhat of a sexual history. Some may be more “experienced” than others and the ghosts of sexual partners past can be an uncomfortable subject. Your partner may feel that incidents from their past paint them in a particular light and they don’t want to feel judged by  someone they care about. Unless you’re prepared to accept your partner as someone who was a complete sexual being with desires before you, leave the dirty details in the past and focus only on that with the potential to affect the present.