In the past I’ve been anti-“Love and Hip Hop.” But,eventually, it got me, and like most of you I’ve been tuning in Mondays to watch the foolishness. However, I think I know why I stayed away for as long as I did. The dysfunctional relationship dynamics can be a little overwhelming to me. But, no one is perfect, so not trying to throw shade. But, if regardless of if you feel as if everyone on the show is just acting, and the the situations are scripted, these scenarios happen to many people everyday. People are living fractured lives by trying to stay in broken relationships.
Inspired by some of the things that I’ve seen on this season so far, here are are a few things that I would really like to point out that shouldn’t be tolerated in relationships.
Having never ending patience
Let’s address the fact that you will never have a perfect relationship, because any union that you’re in requires two imperfect people. However, there are things that just should not be tolerated in said union. If a person keeps on making horribly hurtful behaviors, constantly apologizing and still doing the same thing, you shouldn’t have to stay through all that. If you’re trying to give someone the benefit of the doubt, but they’re not taking your feelings into consideration, then let them be alone. Like Maya Angelou said: “Once someone shows you who they are, believe them.”