You should find a middle ground on trips
To you, the idea of vacation is sipping Mai Tai’s by a pool; to your partner it’s zip lining at 6 am before wind surfing at noon and rock climbing in the evening. So, you always find some middle ground, and nobody gets what he or she wants. It’s okay to vacation without your partner! Plan a “middle ground” trip with him one vacation, and plan another one with your friends next time.