What Do You Promise Before You Have Sex?
If I could have sex with a woman by giving her a”Promise Ring,” I would do it. It’s like leasing a car. You get a new car, you have the option to buy, and you take the car off the market. Have you ever had someone say to you, “I won’t do it again. I promise.” I rest my case.
A ring is a symbol of a relationship you already have. A ring will not give you a relationship. Are we aware that guys will promise anything to have sex with you? A ring. That’s easy. I suggest working on the other 23 hours.
We talk about waiting a year before marrying. Getting to know someone in every season. I say, this is good advice.
I also suggest we get to know someone for all 24 hours of the day. Sleep next to someone not sleep with them, next to them. Snuggle, kiss, whatever, but sleep. Ask yourself, “Do I sleep better with this person? Does my body feel safe or am I just exhausted from sex and I’ll leave in the morning?”
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