Ask A Very Smart Brotha: How Do I Gently Ask My Boyfriend If He Is Bisexual?
Billiejean: I recently started dating a man(he’s 26 I’m goin’ on 31)who is the opposite race(I’m African American. He’s white) and everything seems to be going great..although…I’m nervous. Nervous for the fact that he has more experience dating outside his race than me. And even more so I feel that if I don’t “secure” it with him that he will lose interest in me quick. So my question is: with all the pressures of the world today, how do I let him know that we should wait until marriage before engaging in sexual relations?
FYI: I’m very sensitive to kisses..touches..hugs..movie scenes..public scenes of affection..etc..
Can’t find an off button (HELP PLEASE)!!!
DY: Tell him. There’s really no other option here. Tell him how you feel. If he likes you enough, he’ll accept it. If he doesn’t, he won’t.
