Ask A Very Smart Brotha: How Do I Gently Ask My Boyfriend If He Is Bisexual?

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Raven: I met a guy who is 50yrs old & he stated to me that he has been single for over 15 years+ and stated that he wants a relationship but claims he gets scared of what he is feeling for me and then cuts off communication for a few weeks. (1.) Is he really scared? (2.) Is he just playing games? (3.) How can this be addressed?

DY: Unless he’s been single because he’s a widower who hasn’t been able to get over his wife’s death, at 50, he’s about 29 years too old to still be saying stuff that 21 year olds say.

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