Love Sabbatical Lessons: 15 Things I’ve Learned from Six Years Of Singledom

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I may not know what I want, but I sure know what I don’t want. Of course we all want a college-educated, God-loving, and me-loving man, but there’s a gray area of things that I want in a man versus what I need. Trust me when I say I’m not a picky girl and I believe in compromise and improvement. However, I have a mental list of deal breakers I don’t feel the need to “just let slide” in hopes of landing a partner. I’ve always envied ladies 5’5″ and under because they’re never hard pressed to find a taller man. At 5’8″, I still find myself having a few inches on more guys than I’m comfortable with. Regardless of how much of a cutie he is, if he’s shorter than me in flats, the attraction turns off (I want to able to kiss up, not straight ahead or down). Secondly, if a man has no ambition, goals or the desire to outdo himself, I can’t get with it. I’m a big dreamer and love a person invested in fulfilling their heart’s desires. Last but not least, I under no circumstances want my guy to be involved in or use drugs (or smoky substances). So no 420 celebrations. Yes, I’m aware of what a rare find that’s going to be given the recreational habits of my generation. And with that being said…

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