Before I can give my heart to someone, I have to be my “perfect me” first. I like me a lot, but I’m not head over heels in love with me just yet. I need to be before I devote myself to someone else. I love hard, and loving my boyfriend-fiancé-husband needs to just be an extension of my day. No one has time for second guessing myself or days of low self-esteem levels. Confidence and self-sufficiency needs to ooze from my pores. When my beau loves my spirit, my body, my hair, my family, my friends, my career and my choices, I need to love them all, too.