Happily married funny lady Niecy Nash wants to help out the single ladies, so she’s offering some great (and realistic) dating advice in her new book, It’s Hard to Fight N*ked. During a recent interview with CocoaFab, the Soul Man actress revealed that she believes that her journey and relationship success could be helpful to other women, which is what helped to inspire her book.
“I feel like love is the thing we were created for, yet it’s the place we struggle the most. And I feel like if any of my experience, my stories, my failures, my successes could help the next woman in her journey, I feel like I owe that to women, you know, and men too, because I wanted the people that I love to have rich, full relationships and as I started helping them I decided to cast a wider net, Niecy revealed.
When asked what the ideal outcome would be for women who read her book, she responded:
“My intent is for you to get the relationship you deserve!”
Niecy was also sure to stress the “you are what you attract” philosophy.
“Well, there are multiple nuggets or items that you’d call takeaways in the book. It just depends on where you are in the love journey what is going to resonate with you. If you’re right at the beginning I would tell you to be what you want to see, because inevitably you are going to attract what you are. And so if a whole bunch of crazy people keep showing up then get up and look in the mirror and say, ‘Good morning, crazy!’ Because something ain’t right. And then if you’re a little further down the road and you’re prepared to go out and date, I would encourage you to date for your priority, not for your preference. And then if you’re a little further down the road I would probably tell you some things that you can do to keep your man out of the streets and in your sheets!”
What do you think of her tips?