Dwelling on past experiences
It’s important to learn and remember the past, but the key is to remember that the past is in the past, it’s gone. You can’t put your new date in the same light as your ex. Don’t go into a date with the mindset that this guy is like everyone else. Holding grudges and judging every man on a bad past experience will be detrimental to your dating experience. Keep the past in the back of your mind, but go into dates with a blank slate and a willingness to give your new date the benefit of the doubt.