Ask A Very Smart Brotha: Why Won’t He Ask Me To Be His Girlfriend?
Katt: Damon im 26 and recently relocated for my boyfriend. The city I now live in is extremely different than what I am use to. No where to get my hair done, no friends to go out to happy hour with, not even a hip hop radio station. But I have made this sacrifice to be with him (we dated a year in the same city then long distance for a year). I am ready for marriage and he says he is as well but still no ring. I have dropped enough subtle hints. How do I explain to him how I feel about marriage?
D.Y: I’m sure he’s aware of you wanting to get married. I’m also sure he’s aware of all the changes you made to be with him. With that being said, I wouldn’t do the “subtle hint” thing anymore. Sit him down, and have a serious talk with him about the future of the relationship.
