Ask A Very Smart Brotha: Why Won’t He Ask Me To Be His Girlfriend?
Shana: How can one express/ be more open sexually when they are sexually shy? I want to be more sexually aggressive not completely reserved with my spouse.
D.Y.: You first have to find one why exactly you’re “sexually shy” and work from there. Is it a physical issue? A mental issue? A religious issue? Find the root cause and then you’ll be able to find some real solutions.