Ask A Very Smart Brotha: Why Won’t He Ask Me To Be His Girlfriend?

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Kiara: Like I’m dating a guy with 3 kids by 2 different women…is that something to steer clear of or should I just not even go down that road? It’s still early but I was just wondering if you have any advice on the subject in general.

D.Y.: A lot of questions today about dating men with multiple kids by multiple women. Did Shawty Lo get a new show or something? Anyway, personally, I’d steer clear of that, but that’s doesn’t mean it’s the “right” thing to do. As far as advice goes, I’d pay close attention to his relationships with his kids and their mothers. If those relationships seem to be positive, I’d continue dating him. If not—or if he bad mouths any of them in your presence—I’d run away.

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