Ask A Very Smart Brotha: Why Won’t He Ask Me To Be His Girlfriend?

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Shantice: I’m trying to get my fiancé interested in our wedding plans but he’s so far removed from it. He keeps telling me not to sweat it. Why do men do act like everything will work out and ignore us when we try to plan things out?

D.Y.: If he’s seriously not interested at all in your wedding plans, that’s a huge red flag. But, I get the feeling you’re exaggerating some. And, taking away the wedding stuff, this sounds like a very typical argument men and women have with each other. I think you need to do two things. 1. Stress how important his involvement in this is to you. 2. Relax. I’m sure your wedding is going to be great.

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