Ask A Very Smart Brotha: Why Won’t He Ask Me To Be His Girlfriend?

Sheila: Why do I always get men are afraid to talk to me. Their reason, my job (was a cop), they think I’m high maintenance because I take pride in my appearance. One even said I was too classy and confident. Ok, please explain. Thank you kindly!

D.Y.: If these men are afraid to talk to you, how did you find out exactly why they’re afraid to talk to you? I mean, they obviously did eventually talk to you, so they can’t really be all that scared, right?

Seriously though, who gives a damn? I mean, if someone literally allowed “I can’t talk to you because you’re too classy and confident” to slip out of their lips, why do you even care what a person like that thinks of you? You’ll save yourself a lot of time by not caring about what idiots and assholes think.