It’s More Than A Preference: What The Type Of Men You Date Says About You

April 23, 2013  |  

From Essence

If you keep winding up on dates with the same type of men, over and over again, this post is for you. There are things we should know about our character and personality that make us susceptible to attracting and staying with unbalanced partners. It is important to pay attention to this because doing so can help bring healthier people into your life. The following are eight types of men and what dating them could say about you.

Mr. Narcissist

Description: His charm, talent, success, beauty, and charisma cast a spell on you and everyone around. His conversation is scintillating! Once hooked, however, you battle with his demands, criticisms and self-centeredness.

Dating Him Could Mean: You are also narcissistic. If you’re a narcissist, the common misconception is that you love you some you. Actually, you dislike yourself immensely. Your inflated self-flattery, perfectionism, and arrogance are merely covers for the self-loathing you don’t admit – usually even to yourself. Narcissists often attract and it’s very dangerous. Needing each other one minute and the next, fighting over whose needs come first and pushing away. Narcissism can be healed with courage, time, and a commitment to yourself.

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