10) Does he invite you into his space or does he always come into yours?
The eternal ‘playa’ who doesn’t really want you will usually be like a roaming dog, going from house to house to get what he needs. He doesn’t want any of his women coming into his house, answering his phone, or going through his stuff. The only woman who gets those privileges is the one he really wants. If he is “entering you” both literally and figuratively but not allowing you to enter into his world, that usually means he’s controlling the situation, cheating and not taking you all that seriously. In other words, you are one of his many, many women.