You may already know about Paul Brunson by now. The relationship expert and author of It’s Complicated (But It Doesn’t Have to Be): A Modern Guide to Finding and Keeping Love has been working it in the past few years and has become the go-to guy (behind Steve Harvey) to dish out relationship and matchmaking advice. So of course we were delighted that the happily married man dropped by Madame Noire offices to talk about how he met his wife and address some of our readers’ biggest questions about love and relationships. For one, he doesn’t believe in soulmates. Yeah, that’s pretty interesting considering he’s in the business of love, right? Watch to see him explain his stance on soulmates and his other opinions about matchmaking.