Dig into any person’s past, and you are going to find acts they committed that make you cringe, make your stomach turn, and make you think you don’t even know them. That’s why obsessing over somebody’s past has ruined plenty of relationships. This is where you have to use mental self-control: all you need to know is who he is now and how he treats you now. Maybe he used to play girls all the time. Maybe he had a girlfriend abort a child. Maybe he used to be a man Slore. These are common scenarios in the life of a young man. But that doesn’t mean that young man wasn’t capable of transforming into the man you love today.