Fact: you will not sleep as well with a partner as you will alone. He’ll have his own alarm clock that wakes you, he’ll snore, he’ll push you to the corner of the bed, he’ll get up to use the bathroom. But guess what? You’re keeping him awake in all the same ways (probably). There is no point in fighting over how he is keeping you awake or visa versa. Just ask yourself this: would you rather not sleep together? So long as you know the answer to that is no, then you’re fighting for nothing. Get some ear plugs, or a better mattress, and appreciate that you get to rest at night next to somebody that loves you.