Ask a Very Smart Brotha Live: What’s With All the Diva Dudes?
Vivian: Is it wrong to be upset that my husband considers his ex wife’s daughter his actual daughter even though he was only in her life for three years? He doesn’t see her, but says that’s his daughter. I feel since the relationship is over why still call her your daughter when she has a father? They do have one son together though, I have no issues with that.
D.Y.: Yeah, I think this is something you’re going to have to get over. Can’t chide men for not caring about their kids and then, in the next breath, get upset at a man for loving a kid that wasn’t even biologically his.