Ask a Very Smart Brotha Live: What’s With All the Diva Dudes?
Aisha: Why are men so slow to make up their minds when it comes to relationships? Women know moments into a conversation whether or not we want to get to know you without actually getting to know you.
D.Y.: Actually, a man knows immediately whether or not he considers a woman to be potentially relationship/marriage worthy. That judgment is actually made much quicker than the woman’s judgment about us. If a guy is slow to make up his mind, it just means he’s not completely into the woman he’s “considering.”