Ask a Very Smart Brotha Live: Signing Papers & Dating Younger Men

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Letetia:  I was supposed to go hang out with my guy of six weeks last night. I’ve got a lot going on in my life right now and I’m running on overdrive. He suggested I stay home to get rest instead of hanging out with him. Is there something wrong with his suggestion? He said he just wants me to take care of myself.

DY: You know, I can’t even be mad at this question. I guess it’s (partially) our fault that many women are so cynical in regards to us that a kind-hearted and sincere gesture is met with skepticism. Anyway, I have absolutely no way of knowing exactly how much this guy cares about you, but suggesting that a person you care about take some time to rest and exhale suggests that he has nothing but your best interests in mind. He sounds like he could be a keeper

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