He won’t tell you what he wants
You try to ask. You try to get a little direction. But he just laughs or shakes his head and says, “Just keep going” or worse yet, he kisses you to shut you up. But you know he isn’t totally happy with what’s going on. He might just feel too bossy giving you directions. You’ll need to begin asking in a more Hot manner, if not just paying attention over time and seeing what he likes based on reactions, versus asking him in the moment.