They think hate=love
They only feel truly loved by someone who feels passionate enough about them to hate them at times. Some women have major insecurity problems and simple, healthy displays of love—like kind words, kind gestures and tranquility—bore them. They are incapable of feeling the passion from a man who is just nice. They can only see passion in aggression. So they only feel alive when dating an abusive man. That is an issue a woman must work on herself or she will walk out of one abusive relationship right into the next one.