The homies you left to go off to school might not be the same homies when you come back. You might come home and want to spend all your time catching up with them and hitting the stores and clubs, but they might be busy taking care of business–doing projects for work, canoodling with their boo, busy being M.I.A. Others change for the negative and become shells of the individual you once thought them to be. It happens. Whether the change is worth it to to you to deal with or dump, just be prepared. Family is usually the same, but the homies? These days, you can’t be too sure.