The person trying to become friends
If you are an outgoing person with a bubbly personality, you will attract others. Sometimes, you’ll attract people who are, um, not outgoing or bubbly. They’re shy. A little bland perhaps. But they like your energy because it’s so different from theirs. However…you don’t get much from the interactions. You carry the interactions. And these people are trying to be your friend. That’s exhausting.