So, what’s fair?
Just because you get along better with your man’s friends than he does with yours, does that mean that you should dedicate more time, as a couple, with his friends than with yours? Meh. You may nitpick about this early in a relationship, but later, you’ll learn to pick your battles and this isn’t one of them. Everyone is happiest when you double date with one set of friends, and not the other. Maybe that’s simple enough. You can see your friends on your own time.