Friends who won’t make the time
I know several people who operate like this: they only stick to a plan under perfect conditions. But should they get a headache, feel a bit sad, be slightly hungover, or be falling behind on a project, they’ll cancel on friends at the last minute. I had to tell one such friend I just couldn’t hang with her anymore—she’d always cancel on me at the last minute. She told me I wasn’t being very understanding—that I’m militant and have no sympathy for her situations.