Tamar Braxton & Boyfriend David Adefoso Share The Transforming Power Of Forgiveness & Love In Heartfelt Instagram Posts
Tamar Braxton and her beau David Adefeso jointly shared about their journey to love on Tuesday.
The couple shared two separate posts where they expounded on self love and love for one another. In Braxton’s post, she even extended her newfound appreciation for what love means to apologize for the behavior which has made her the most revered as well as the most admonished.
Tamar paired her post with a video of her with her close friend, James Wright, her sister Towanda Braxton and David while they enjoyed a day at the water park.
“When all u know and felt is hurt. You hurt. Self inflicted and to others are included,” she wrote. “From my sisters, the ladies of the real, Iyanla, old and new Friends and whomever else I’ve EVER hurt, from being hurt. Please forgive me. I didn’t know love to show you love. Now I do thanks to my @david.adefeso 🌟”
David, for his part shared a lengthy message about how the power of love helped give him patience and determination.
“When I met my @tamarbraxton 12 months ago she was angry, distraught and almost-completely broken,” he wrote.
“While her behavior was a significant cause of these misfortunes, it took me a while to recognize that there were other equally valid causes, including being repeatedly assaulted by men in her life she trusted (first physically as a child, then emotionally later on in life by deeply aggressive and utterly controlling romantic relationships); finally culminating in the continuing psychological damage brought on by working on a TV show she feels utterly shackled to due to contract terms,” he wrote.
“This is what I inherited so I had a choice: to continue the emotional and psychological abuse she had endured for almost 3 decades by being aggressively controlling and manipulative or to be a kind, gentle and loving friend and lover to the woman I love- Well, I chose the latter, and the results have been outstanding!” he said.
Braxton and her family have been through a rollercoaster of emotion over the last two years, so it’s great to see the individually healing in order to be there for each other in unity.