Relationship Issues You’ll Have To Agree To Disagree On
Discussing it makes matters mostly worse
Yes, my partner wishes I’d go down there more. But he also realized that, back when he expressed that, and I abided, he wound up not really enjoying it—he felt guilty, because he wasn’t sure if I actually wanted to, or just felt obligated. With sex acts, you can’t really fight about who does or doesn’t do this or that. It takes the fun out of it when it does happen.