Ask Lots Of Questions
Melamed also suggests that you ask some questions about their attachment style and how they like to “do life” with another person.
“Getting a sense of what they are looking for, talking about future hopes and dreams, where they see themselves, how they would like to spend their days, what they want to do in their free time, how they relate to their family, etc. is a great information-gathering exercise.”
This string of questions is in place to help you mine some data to indirectly figure out what their priorities are.