Despite Ugly Gender Reveal Argument, Ray J Says Princess, Brandy And Sonja Are In A “Super Dope” Place
If you watched Love and Hip Hop Hollywood last week, or read our piece, Why Is Princess Love The Only Woman In Ray J’s Life Who Doesn’t Excuse His Foolishness?, you know that Princess Love had quite the back and forth with in-laws Sonja and Brandy Norwood. It was all because Ray J displayed some pretty poor behavior during her pregnancy that created some trust issues in their marriage. Upset about him putting himself in situations that could allow other women to message her and talk unfavorably, Princess Love put Ray J on blast on social media. His mother and sister didn’t appreciate that, and wanted her to publicly apologize for her behavior. When he brought Princess to Sonja and Brandy during the gender reveal party she planned to offer that apology, the then-mom-to-be flipped the script on everybody. It didn’t end well:
So where do things stand now? According to Ray J, who sat with The Breakfast Club this week, they’re all thick as thieves again because they were able to finally speak honestly and hash out their issues.
“As a family you’ve just got to get to know each other. And the downs really bring you together more because it’s like, I really got stuff off my chest that, you know, probably was there,” he said. “So now everybody is super dope. I need my mom there to help with the baby. And I need her mom there because we don’t do nannies and stuff yet.”
Ray also says that their marriage has improved for the better because of everything she went through to have their daughter, Melody.
“It got way better! It got way better because my respect level for the wife went beyond the roof,” he said. “It was a whole different thing. And I was crying like a baby when the baby came out. I mean literally, I didn’t know I could cry like that. Everything she went through? She was in labor for like almost 27 hours.”
And their marriage also improved because Ray J finally saw the error in the way he was treating Princess. They both agree that she’s the only person to call him on his stuff, and he’s thankful for it.
“She’s the only one that made me understand that the stuff I was really doing was absolutely wrong and uncalled for,” he said. “There was something that needed to change if she was going to stick around. If not, she was out. And I didn’t want to lose Princess, she’s my favorite person.”