It’s said that the keys to a relationship are compromise and communication. But what happens after you both communicate the fact that you aren’t willing to compromise on very important things? It’s important to be open-minded, to allow others to be themselves, and to let the little differences slide. But it’s also important to know when you simply won’t be able to be yourself with a man, and when a difference is actually very big. Like these:

Are you in a great relationship?  Have you heard horror stories from friends about their men blindsiding them with a break-up or divorce?  Well maybe it’s time to take a double look at your relationship, before you’re left scratching your head in the dust.  Take a look at these 7 signs that are key indicators that your man might not be as invested as you think.

1.  He keeps breaking his promises.  When the effort starts diminishing, so does his dedication to you and therefore the plans you make.  Men do exactly, most of the time, what they want to do.  They don’t often feel the pressure that us women feel by society or peers.  When he’s not putting in the time for you, it’s because he isn’t making you a priority.