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It’s 2014 and we’re all created equal…right? Men and women may be on more even footing than ever before, but there are still a few limits on us ladies lives. Quite a few if you really think about it.
Are some women just not girls’ girls or are some women just hating? It could go either way when it comes to these celebrity women other women don’t like.
Joseline never had the girlfriend drop-in like other stars. We think it’s her non-nonsense attitude…and maybe the fact that she started a relationship with her manager Stevie J before he was technically single. But we’re sure that if she stopped calling herself The Baddest Puta, she’d do better.
He thinks the lingerie, meals and heels are all for him. But we know better. Here are things we pretend to do for men that we really do for ourselves.
Getting Dressed Up
Sure, you didn’t mind catching his eye. But the real reason you rock that bandeau is to plant seeds of jealousy in the hearts of other chicks.
That commercial where several girls carry out an elaborate plan just so one can secretly sneak a tampon into a bathroom isn’t that off the mark. In fact that’s just one of the inconveniences of being a woman that men will never understand.
It’s hard out there for a big-chested girl.
Bring me some fabric tape and a safety pin.
Not long ago I was having a conversation with a friend about why men date younger women. She suggested that men are worried that older women (age 30 and over) must have some type of inherent flaw. I said I could only agree to some extent. Having dated older and younger women, I can say there are benefits to dating both, but being older isn’t an indication that you may be flawed.
The fact of the matter is that most men who are wondering what’s wrong with said woman are probably over 30 themselves. Isn’t that the pot calling the kettle black? It’s also assuming that she’s been actively trying to get married or seek out a relationship throughout her twenties. That’s something that in our day and time may not hold true. Plenty of women choose to focus on things outside of a relationship and marriage. It also assumes that she wasn’t in a long-term relationship that ended because of compatibility issues. She’s not single because she’s flawed but because she realized that the man she was dating wasn’t who she wanted to be with for the rest of her life.
I’d like to tell you that with age comes maturity but that’s not true. I’ve met 35-year-old women who were just as immature as an 18-year old woman. I’ve met women who were 22 and wise beyond their years. It’s really hit or miss. What I can tell you, though, is that while I know men who wonder about a woman’s age, I think it’s rather silly. When I think of all the things I’m factoring into picking a mate, her age isn’t one of the highest items. It’s actually very secondary in nature. I’m searching for compatibility, mutual interests/goals and the desire to build something worthwhile. If that comes with a woman who is ten years my senior, then so be it. Any man who’s wrecking his brain trying to figure out if her age is a precursor of flaws is wasting his time on things that aren’t all that important.
Currently, about 15% of women are older than their spouses. That number is rising because gender dynamics and paths in life are morphing in the 21st Century. There are more people who realize that in today’s society it’s better to focus on a great match that won’t end in divorce rather than age and I would expect that in a short amount of time that 15% will rise considerably. What this means is that all the men who are still putting too much thought into a woman’s age are becoming archaic.
Therefore, just like I say with many other “unconventional” happenings in relationships and marriage, what works for you works for you. Nobody has to be in your relationship but you. As men mature they understand this more than they did when they were young. They understand that it takes much more than your age to determine compatibility. And you should know that too.
The hard truth behind judgment is that we judge others because, in some way, they reflect insecurities we feel about ourselves. So if you catch yourself talking about another woman for one of the following reasons, you might just be jealous or frightened over something in your own life.
No one wants to be seen as unapproachable, but there are plenty of women out there who scare men away before they can even ask for their name. When a man senses the vibe that you’re unapproachable, there isn’t enough leg or cleavage showing that will fix it. Here are some things that make women unapproachable and what you can do about it.
Men often get blamed for ruined relationships or having personality traits that make it almost impossible to sustain healthy unions. But men aren’t always the ones to blame for failed . Here is a list that shows the type of women men should stir clear of when trying to pursue relationships.
The Control Freak
For this woman, her ideal relationship is less about compatibility and compromise and more about having someone do everything she says. The only way she can be happy is if she has complete control over circumstances which ruins all opportunity for spontaneity, romantic surprises, and, you know, a man to love out of his own free will.
Finding a man should not be a competition with other women. If you and a guy are meant to be, he’ll notice you without any antics. Unfortunately, some women have yet to realize that and do these unfortunate things to attract a guy.