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Here’s Why We Should Stand Together In The Feminism Movement Instead Of Fleeing From It

July 15th, 2014 - By La Truly
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Dear women nationwide,

The “F-word” and its effect on society is staggering. We live in a society where for the attention of patriarchal men, some women abandon or vehemently berate other women who claim to be feminists. We often shun even the more positive aspects of feminism, hoping that our adamant denouncements will keep us from being associated with those ‘bad seeds.’ Some of us trade our opportunities to champion one of the most oppressed groups on the planet for the prospect of a date.

To some men, we may win points for going along with the patriarchal program, but at the end of the day, is it worth it to turn our backs on or even mock and attack those who are tackling the very specific issues that affect us, our mothers, our sisters and our daughters?

I have found myself straddling the fence of feminism. I haven’t been a fan of everything happening within the movement, but I believe in the basis of its existence. I found myself at odds fairly often with male friends who just couldn’t understand how unequivocally ignorant, patriarchal and categorically untrue it is to tell a woman that her attire is the reason for her rape, and I have been called bitter when simply speaking in favor of women who choose to live for their own happiness and are not constantly vying for the attention of men. I knew two years ago when I decided to learn about and become part of the feminist movement, that I would be met with the same side eyes and eye rolls that I once gave to most talk of feminism before I was educated about the topic. I knew that I would have a lot of explaining to do, seeing as ‘feminist’ has such a wide spectrum of meanings in 2014. I knew that there would be men who would dismiss my concerns about rape and mindless subscription to gender roles and my issues with the word ‘submissive.’ I could prepare myself for those things, even if only slightly as I picked up the feminist/womanist banner. What I had no way of preparing for was the vehement and disappointing slap in the face I received from many women who, day after day, deal with oppression because of their gender – just like the rest of us. I had no way of preparing for women slandering other women in an attempt to seem more pleasing to men – the dominant party in this case.

Make no mistake, there is room to disagree. I disagree often with the approaches and practices of some feminists. What I don’t do is try to remove myself from the ‘F-word’ or bash those with whom I disagree.

Just as ‘proximity to whiteness’ is a poor lens through which to view the trajectory of people of color, so is ‘proximity to patriarchy’ for women. These two ways of thinking do more to divide and contribute to misunderstanding among us than they do to help us find common ground and progression. There is room to have our individual views of relationships, gender roles, marriage and more without tearing down one another. As women, we do not have to conform when it comes to our views to gain the ‘respect’ and attention of men. Why should we settle for dismissing our rights?

There is a marked difference between disagreeing with a point-of-view and pretending to disagree with said point-of-view for the attention of a third party. There is honor in disagreeing but choosing to engage in progressive discussion. Women could stand to learn this lesson well. There is nothing to be gained by vying for the attention of men who may or may not even want us once we’ve bloodied one another.

There is a deep need for us to look at ourselves, and the way we interact with one another. Are we kind? Do we engage to understand or do we simply close our ears and wait our turn to devour one another in argument?

We are not inherently catty and conniving. Many of us have succumbed to that behavior because of societal pressures surrounding relationships. The greatest thing we can do is to unite and to engage in dialogue with other women with whom we may not readily agree and attempt to learn from one another; to understand that to wholly love oneself as well as the fullness of womanhood and to believe in the fair treatment of our sex is not profane, nor should it be forbidden. It should be taught, discussed, embraced and endorsed. Let us be moved by what is going to uplift us as women. The men worth your attention will follow suit.

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Who Needs Feminism? Black Women AND MEN Have a Face and Voice in Viral Campaign

April 16th, 2012 - By Bianca Clendenin
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A recent campaign on Facebook called, Who Needs Feminism? has sparked some controversy all over the web. Originally started by 16 women who attend Duke University, they created this campaign to combat the negative images that resonate with people when they hear the world feminism:

“Identify yourself as a feminist today and many people will immediately assume you are man-hating, bra-burning, whiny liberal. Perhaps a certain charming radio talk show host will label you as a “Feminazi” or “S**t.” Even among more moderate crowds, feminism is still seen as too radical, too uncomfortable, or simply unnecessary. Feminism is both misunderstood and denigrated regularly on a broad societal scale.”

Inspired by a Women in the Public Sphere course at Duke University, these 16 young women have decided to fight back and teach people what they believe it truly means to be a feminist.  The idea that many people believe we don’t need feminism anymore is frightening. Women are still degraded and objectified in the media, women are still not given equal pay even though many exceed most men in education, women are still being told what they can and can’t do with their own bodies. Simply put, we’re still getting the short end of the stick.

What I really like about this campaign is that it allows women and men who are usually not the face of feminism to have a voice. Middle class white woman have always been the main vehicle for feminism, which has somewhat excluded women of color, queer identified people, and transgender people.  I also like that men are entering into the conversation, because feminism isn’t about the equality of just women, but men too.

Even now, when you ask people what they think a feminist is, they will most likely think of some radical white woman who doesn’t shave and hates all men. When in actuality, people like me, a 21-year old black female in college, identifies as a feminist/womanist.

As great as feminism is, why do women of color have to create another movement to gain recognition? Why is it that in 2012, we still have to question this? As a young black feminist, I sometimes find myself outside of the conversation. I attend the meetings of my college’s feminism group and the lack of faces that look like mine is staggering. Many women of color either feel feminism isn’t for them and/or feel that the issues that pertain to them don’t get addressed, so they wonder why they need to get involved.

It’s nice to see college students take the initiative to tackle an important issue, I just hope in the future that more young black women will feel confident enough to call themselves feminists.

Do you believe we still need feminism? Does feminism play a part in your life?

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How Feminism is Ruining Your Love Life

June 16th, 2011 - By L. Nicole Williams
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You could probably be married by now.


Or have a boyfriend.

Instead, you are complaining about no-good men, working your life away and nursing an affinity for self-pleasure.



Correction: misguided feminism.

Professionally, feminism has done wonders creating opportunities for women to flourish in the workplace. Many of us are entrepreneurs or climbing the ranks at a Fortune 500 company, inching closer to equal pay. Socially, we have gained complete control over our bodies. Thanks to birth control, sex doesn’t  guarantee nine months standing barefoot and pregnant. We have the option of planning for motherhood and limiting family size.

Though it has been a source for economic trajectory and independence, feminism has also taken a toll on our love lives. A surge of scorned baby-mamas, bitter divorcées and those plagued by daddy-issues propagate singlism and wear their “mule” title as a badge of honor.

Much of the abrasiveness, attitude and other testosterone-driven antics that run good men away are products of feminism gone wrong. And, it is to blame for many of the single, black female’s woes. Here’s how:

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Beyond Stereotypes: Understanding Feminism/Womanism

January 12th, 2011 - By SisterToldja
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The blogosphere has introduced many folks to self-proclaimed feminists, perhaps for the first time. However, to truly understand the concepts of feminism and womanism and why these passionate and outspoken men and women attach these titles to themselves, we advise that your hit your local library, bookstore (or e-book store) for some research. Here are five great books to get you started: