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Rashidah Ali Talks Shaunie O’Neal-Produced Wedding Special And Why She’s No Longer Friends With Tahiry
In case you were disappointed by Rashidah Ali’s lack of camera time in the current season of Love & Hip Hop, you’ll get to see a lot more of her, as she recently announced that she will be collaborating with Shaunie O’Neal for a wedding special.
“Well right now I am actually currently working on a wedding special with Shaunie O’Neal executive producing it of course with the support of Mona because that’s my heart right there and you’ll be able to see him [my fiancé] there since I can’t do the wedding special by myself cause if I could I would,” Rashidah said during an interview with Bossip.
She also surprisingly revealed that her friendship with Tahiry is a done deal.
“The funny thing is that the people that you expect not to get out of line are the ones that get out of line. Tahiry and I are no longer friends and that’s not someone that you would expect to get out of line,” she continued.
Only God knows what caused a rift between the ladies and unfortunately, we may not see it play out on the show. Tahiry responded to Rashidah’s revelation during a follow-up interview with Bossip.
“I really don’t know if it’s gonna play out on the show. I really don’t know what Rashidah is talking about. She’s probably talking about it so you guys can talk about it. At the end of the day, I know what friendship means to me. I know the definition of a friendship. So I guess she’s saying that because she needs to so you guys can ask me about it because there’s nothing else going on. I’m highly disappointed. It hurts me bad, but everyone does what they want to do when they’re on TV, I guess,” Tahiry said.
“We’ve known each other for eight years—in passing—the last five. When Joey and I lived together, Rashidah was our neighbor for like a year tops [...] There was a level of respect I thought we had. It was a level of friendship that I thought we had. Friends are not friends because you see each other everyday or you connect everyday. Friends are friends because no matter what happens, it’s like y’all never left,” she continued.
It sucks that these two aren’t friends anymore.
Watch Rashida’s interview below and Tahiry’s response on the next page. Would you watch Rashidah’s wedding special?
Adrienne McAdory is hoping to shake up the wedding industry with her new top level domain, dotWED, offering couples a new address for their wedding website. According to her website, “No longer will couples getting married be stuck with undesirable .COM extensions or long URLs from secondary sites. .WED domain names are sold to couples for one or two years to celebrate their wedding. The domain names then become available to another couple.” So imagine you are getting married. You and the fiance can have your own domain name, i.e. TishaandEdmond.wed (instead of .com). McAdory charges a starting price of $50 per year for the first two years.
From December 30, 2013 through January 28, 2014 newly-engaged couples will have the opportunity to claim their own dotWED domain name as part of the pre-launch period. The first dotWED websites from will go live on February 1, 2014. For all other, general availability begins for the world April 1, 2014.
McAdory wound up with the ownership rights to dotWED almost by chance. A government IT consultant for more than a decade, she stumbled upon an article in the Washington Post announcing the sale of 1,000 new top level domains (TLDs). Seeing this a great business opportunity, McAdory cashed in a large portion of her savings, formed a company (Atgron Inc.) and purchased the rights to dotWED.
Her timing is great. A third of proposals each year occur between Thanksgiving and New Year’s, and another six million are predicted to occur on Valentine’s Day, reports Mashable.
McAdory plans to take dotWED global. “The Mississippi native who has lived in Ghana, Zimbabwe, Kenya and Beijing, has an international outlook on the reach of dotWED and refuses to settle for only domestic,” says the press release.
Besides the services of dotWED there are other online sites that can also help make your wedding unique. A few examples — courtesy of Mashable — are Wedding Window, which offers custom URLs and online RSVPs; Glo Site, which costs $19.99 per month or $75 per year to use services that include digital and paper wedding invitations and organizational tools for wedding-related activities; and, the old standby, WordPress, which is free but costs money for a domain name and hosting service. Beware, however. “WordPress is probably the service that can be customized the most, but it’s also the most difficult to use,” Mashable points out. You need to be familiar with web coding and because it’s open source, features are at times unreliable.
Unlike fellow bride-to-be Kim Kardashian, it looks like Ciara is already checking out potential wedding dates. During a recent interview with Entertainment Tonight, the newly engaged “Body Party” singer discussed wedding plans.
“It’s going to be around next year because he’s on tour now and I’m finishing up stuff. We wanted it to be at the best time. I just know I don’t want it to be when it’s super hot. I don’t want everyone to be burning up at the wedding. I want the perfect weather. There’s probably going to be two parts to it because we have so much family in Atlanta, but I like the sun. I like the exotic places in the world, you know?” she said.
The blushing bride-to-be also gushed about how it feels to be getting married.
“It feels so good. What’s so funny is, I was thinking about my life as a woman and all that’s happened to me and the things I’ve been through as a woman. It feels so great to be with someone who’s like, your best friend. I can almost cry talking about it now because every time I think about it, it really kicks in, but I feel so happy. I really do.”
She went on to say that she’s happy to call Future her fiancé.
“I’m just very proud. I think I just like being able to say ‘my fiancé.’ Not my boyfriend. It’s not just that word you toss around. That’s my fiancé! I love it. It feels so good.”
Speaking of marriage proposals and weddings, Kim Kardashian is already discussing wedding planning–sort of. During a recent interview with People, a newly engaged Kim opened up about future wedding plans. Though she didn’t give up much, she did say that she’s allowing Kanye to take the lead on this one.
“We honestly haven’t had a moment to talk about it or even breathe. So, we haven’t really talked about it, but whatever he wants.”
Though it’s pretty rare that you hear a bride-to-be is leaving the wedding planning to her fiancé, I suppose planning a wedding isn’t all that fun or exciting the third go ’round. She did, however, make it clear that she wants her stepfather, Bruce Jenner, to give her away at the wedding. The 33-year-old reality star also dished on what was going through her head during the proposal.
“I was shaking so much, shaking the entire time. Like, ‘Is this really happening?’ It was like an out-of-body experience,” she said.
In case you somehow missed it, Kanye proposed to Kim last weekend during her 33rd birthday celebration in San Francisco. The two have been dating for almost two years and share one daughter together.
Would you ever give your fiancé free reign over your wedding planning?
It looks like Ciara had a pretty exciting weekend. Not only did the “Body Party” singer celebrate her 28th birthday, but her rapper-producer boyfriend, Future, proposed to her with a 15-carat ring, the AP reports.
According to the couple’s publicist, Chris Chambers, Future popped the question during CiCi’s birthday celebration in New York City last night. In no time, the blushing bride-to-be took to Twitter to express her excitement and shock regarding the surprise proposal.
Although CiCi may have been shocked by her boo boo’s ultimate expression of love, most of us could’ve predicted that a proposal was in the works. Back in August the “Never End” rapper told Hot97′s Angie Martinez that Ciara was definitely the one.
“It wasn’t like I met her and everything stopped…It’s crazy, me and my brother Rocko we was riding. It had to be like seven years ago…and she was shooting a video on the curb. I was like, ‘Dang, she look good. I’ma have her one day.’He was like ‘Man, stop and say something to her.’ I said ‘Naw I ain’t gonna say nothing to her, but I’ma be with her one day.’ That was seven years ago and I was saying that and it ended up happening”
“This the one. Like I said, I said it before…seven years ago, so for it to come around and happen, it was just meant to be,” he said.
So far no date has been set, but we’ll definitely keep you all posted!
Wedding etiquette is so intricate it’s easy to let your manners slip through some cracks. But just because you’re the bride, doesn’t mean you get to do whatever you want; some mistakes will make your guests feel slighted.
Last week, MN wrote about guests declining marriage invites because attending weddings are too expensive. But now, let’s talk about the flip side: wedding extravaganzas are in decline because working class Americans simply do not have enough financial security, according to Health Day.
The latest findings show that the marriage rate has shrunk to 6.8 per 1,000 weddings. In 2000, the rate 8.2 and in 1970, it was 10.6. Currently, the average age that women are gettin married is 27 — the highest it has ever been. This coincides with a new study that discovers that women with college degrees are more likely to be married than women with high school diplomas; “a stark reversal from years ago,” Health Day added.
Working-class men and women claimed that job insecurity was the main culprit that is hindering their walk down the aisle; a lack of resources and low wages makes the prospect of marriage unnerving. “[T]hey had a hard time imagining being able to provide for someone else—financially or emotionally,” said Sarah Corse, a researcher involved in the study.
The working class are too concerned about the present — such as figuring out how to get a hold of sufficient funds — to plan for future. According to research from UCLA, low-income Americans want to get married just as much as their higher-income counterparts. But they have a better grasp of the values needed to sustain a happy marriage compared to higher-earning classes. “Poor people were more focused on the role of a good job, and an adequate income, and having some savings as the important factors in having a successful marriage,” Forbes added.
“If you can’t handle your own problems,” Corse said, “how can you take on someone else’s? Marriage just doesn’t look very appealing.” As a result, young working class adults often opt for short-term relationships — such as co-habitation — rather than pursuing a long-term marriage.
Working-class men and women are waiting to move up on the social and economic ladder before they jump the broom, adds Andrew Cherlin, a marriage and family professor at John Hopkins University. Pretty rational, don’t you think? The biggest predictor of divorce is a married couple being unable to make ends meet.
“A good marriage is unrealistic given the economic stresses haunting blue-collar America and especially low-income black communities,” Forbes said. “The simple fact behind the decline of marriage in the US is economic pragmatism.”
Many young ladies dream of their wedding day: the dress, the shoes, the man they’ll spend their life with and the list goes on and on. For many women, they also get a chance to have that daddy-daughter dance that usually gains many sentimental thoughts from guests.
But what if there’s a possibility of a woman missing out on that special dance with her father?
Meet Rachel Woof.
The California native is 25 years old and is not engaged (she might even be single) but she realized that her dad might not be able to see the say she walk down the aisle, should it happen.
Wolf’s dad, Dr. James Wolf, is suffering from pancreatic cancer which was diagnosed in 2011. He’s been through many rounds of chemotherapy and with his final round looming, Rachel realized that she wanted to do something very memorable and touching.
So, she staged a “wedding” for the sole purpose of having a father-daughter dance with her dad. Rachel sent her father an invitation that invited him to a father-daughter dance. They met at a park where Rachel, donned in a wedding dress, shoes and jewelry, danced with her dad in a moment she always hoped to have.
They danced to “Cinderella” by Steven Curtis Chapman.
ABC News reports that their affiliate recorded the dance but Rachel doesn’t want to watch it until she’s actually having a wedding. Wolf was a bit surprised that her father was so touched:
“It meant more to him than I ever thought it would. The joy that I saw in his face when he saw me was amazing. I always told him I would have a religious wedding, but I never told him how important it was [the dance] because I thought he was going to be around for a lot longer. You don’t think about these things until they are too late.”
Dr. Wolfe added about his daughter’s gesture:
“I was completely taken aback. It was a special idea to remember her father at her wedding day.”
Listen. The above video is only one minute and six seconds but it only took me 20 seconds before my eyeballs started sweating (for those of you who don’t get it, I started tearing up a bit). It was just so sweet.
Check out the clip and let us know what you think.
That pretty little wedding invitation is supposed to bring joy, but instead it brings you panic when you see that “plus one” line and the one next to it, where you have no idea what to write. Here are 15 people you can bring to a wedding, when you’re not in a relationship.
Planning a destination wedding can be fun, exciting, and nerve-wracking all at the same time. What’s better than being able to plan your wedding to take place in some exotic location with amazing scenery? Though destination weddings are a one-of-a-kind experience, there is a lot of time, effort, and planning that needs to go into them to make sure that they go off without a hitch. Here are some tips for planning a destination wedding.