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According to Cosmo, signs that a man really loves you include him bringing you flowers for no reason, trying to hold you when the both of you are sleeping, and complimenting you when you don’t have a lick of makeup on. But the Internet would argue that a real sign is when he helps you take out your weave. That’s been added to the love decree after Ayesha Curry shared video of husband Steph helping her take out her extensions. That man was concentrating while cutting the thread out of her hair as though he were preparing to shoot a crucial free throw during the NBA finals. It was the cutest thing you’ll see all day. Okay, within this hour:
He was so focused he couldn’t even find the time to respond to her question of whether or not he loves her. Now that’s dedication.
Add weave removal to the list of things we love that some men do, which also includes greasing our scalps, giving foot rubs, painting our nails (especially the non-dominant hand) and listening to us rant about our day when we know we’re not really talking about anything. And you can also add this to the list of things Steph Curry makes time for during the off-season. We’re loving the quality time spent with his family, even if it’s spent in her scalp.
About once a month I think to myself: I wish I was one of those Black girls that can do hair. While I get by with the few styles I’ve learned to execute, I can’t cornrow to save my life and my skills with curling and flat irons are average at best. I can’t even use flexi rods right because I never manage to properly wrap the ends of my hair. That means any time I’ve wanted a head full of curls that wasn’t a wash n’ go, I’ve had to go to a pro.
That’s why when I had the opportunity to try out Curlformers, I felt a sense of tapered excitement. I’d always wanted to try the hair curling system, but based on my history with curling devices of any and all kinds, my expectations were low. Sure, I’d watched my share of hair Youtubers achieve amazing results with the product, but I’ve also seen myself waste hours prepping, twisting, and rolling my hair at night only to excitedly wake up to a disappointing head full of tight second row pew church lady curls. But I decided to give Curlformers my best try and I’m glad I did.
I first attempted Curlformers on my natural hair exactly one month ago. Before I began, I consulted YouTube and I’m glad I did. The single most important tip to using Curlformers is to make sure you twist your hair at the root in order for the hook device to properly grasp your hair and pull it through the Curlformer without snagging. Otherwise, you’ll not only pull and tangle your hair, your curls won’t achieve proper shape. Here’s a little video on what I mean by that.
While the process was time consuming — it took about a little more than an hour to install all of the Curlformers — it was still quite simple, with the most difficult part being ensuring your hair is twisted tightly enough and the section of hair isn’t too big to fit in the hook and pull through the rod. With all of my Curlformers in place around mid-day Sunday, I hoped for the best when I woke up Monday morning around 7 am and was pleasantly surprised by my results. I had truly straight barrel curls on my natural hair and even my roots air-dried to straight perfection. All I’d used on my hair was LottaBody’s 5-n-1 Miracle Styling Crème and Setting Lotion which was great under perfect weather conditions (in my house, not moving in the AC). But after doing things around the house, by the time I was ready to leave my curls had taken on a fro-ish like quality and into a ponytail they went without me even bothering to capture a photo. Next time, I would definitely use some sort of custard or gel for better hold and frizz prevention.
This past weekend, I gave Curlformers another try with my weave install and actually found it a little more difficult to grip such straight strands of hair with the hook and pull them through the formers, but the amount of time to full installation was about the same. With both the weave and my natural hair, I’ve found the 30 Curlformers that come in the kit aren’t enough, so if you have thick hair I recommend buying an extra pack of for curl consistency. The first go ’round I found myself using larger sections of hair in the back as I ran out of devices.
The results above were achieved with the Long Barrel Curls kit and, like with my natural hair, I used the same LottaBody products and the curls had fully dried and taken shape within about 12 hours or less. Because I didn’t have enough Curlformers, I had to leave about 1/4 of my hair in the back straight over night. In the morning, I took out the Curlformers on the rest of my hair and then installed them to the dry straight strands in the back for about 2 hours, and though the curls were a bit less defined than the others, I would certainly consider installing a few formers on my dry hair before an event to give my locs a boost.
What I haven’t discovered, thus far, is how to maintain the curls. Not having hairspray and not wanting to apply a drying spritz, I let my hair do as it pleased throughout the day and, honestly, my curls didn’t fall much — even through a brisk walk to the park on a hot summer day. When I tied my hair down with a silk scarf at night and awoke the next morning, however, it was a different situation. The curls were flat and laying every which way and I knew I’d made a grave mistake in not resetting them in the Curlformers the night before or doing some kind of pin curls before bed. During the the day tho… my curls were popping. Curlformers will easily become my go-to for switching up my look, whether natural or weaved.
Summer’s officially here and, for many women, with the changing of the seasons comes a changing of the hair.
EssenceFest always marks my official entrance into summer heat — and humidity, thanks to New Orleans’ swampy climate — and this year (like last) I didn’t want to be bothered with my hair. And so, I took a dip into the land of milk and yaki again, via SONO ATL‘s Virgin Luxe Hair Extensions.
There’s no hairstyle I love more than a bob (except a high bun), so when I was offered a chance to review one of the SONO ATL weave lines, I knew a lob (long bob) was in my future. SONO’s hair collection comes in three textures, straight, wave, and curly, so I opted for three bundles of the straight Brazilian variety also known as Keep Em Straight Bish. (Don’t let the name detour you.)
The 100% Virgin hair comes in a natural brown hue, and because I live for jet Black hair, my first order of business was to basically de-virginize the hair and dye it the darkest shade possible: blue-back. In the past, when I’ve dyed multiple weave bundles I didn’t get the color saturation I desired so this time I used two bottles of a blue-black rinse and let it sit on the hair for 30 minutes, rinsed, applied a conditioner, rinsed again, and let the hair air dry for a couple of days. Note: A little conditioner can go a long way so be careful not to overdo it, or else the hair will have an unnatural sheen to it.
The first thing my stylist, Olivia of Bombshell Studios NYC, said when she saw the hair I wanted her to sew in was how pretty it is and that she vowed to buy packs of it if I told her it held up well a month later — meaning it didn’t become matted, shed, or tangle easily. I know virtually nothing about weave so for a hairstylist who handles wefts (a word she had to teach me during my appointment) every day was impressed by the extensions, I figured I’d made a good choice.
Installation of the hair was as easy as any sew-in I’ve had– quick and painless. I didn’t opt for a hair net because I wanted my own hair to be able to breathe and I, somewhat reluctantly, left the middle of my own hair out to achieve a more natural look. Being natural and always wearing my hair in a curly wash ‘n go, I was worried my own hair wouldn’t be straight enough to blend in with the Brazilian extensions, but that actually wasn’t an issue, thanks to a flat iron, edge control, and an anti-humidity gloss and shine mist.
When I came in to work someone thought I’d just straighten my hair, which is always a good sign (for me) when I have a weave. I don’t like for extensions to look unnatural, which is why I’m pleased with the results of the SONO ATL line which is holding up well for me in 85-plus degree weather. I’m not tangling, I’ve have body, and the hair carries just the right amount of shine. To grab a bundle or two for yourself, click here.
*Editor’s Note: I ended up getting a closure before my trip to NOLA because my stylist was worried about me applying to much heat trying to straighten and blend my hair and damaging my curl pattern. It proved to be the right move, and with some layers and soft waves, I still achieved a natural look.
Here’s a confession – I’m a lazy natural. To that end, I’m a fan of protective styles I can leave in until they look crazy. Since I gave up the creamy crack, I relish the choice not to spend a lot of money on my hair, and I don’t like having to spend hours doing it each day.
I feel you all judging me already…
This mindset is, essentially, how I began my long and illustrious affair with kanekalon hair. The year was 2013, and I was at the point in my natural hair journey where I’d look in the mirror and sigh. I’d pull at a strand and note with satisfaction that it was beyond my chin only to let go and watch it jump up by my ear.
Blame society, blame humidity or blame chronically low self-esteem, but I didn’t feel sexy or glamourous with my perpetual afro puff. As a result, I did what most naturals do when they need inspiration: I logged onto YouTube to see that everyone was obsessed with Marley twists. For those who don’t know, Marley braid hair is a type of synthetic (kanekalon/toyokalon) hair that mimics coarser hair textures. Women in the hair videos were giving me natural hair glam by flipping their twists over their shoulder, and turning in slow motion, so the hair fanned out (with R&B instrumentals in the background).
I spent the next two years in and out of Marley twists, beating my face, painting my lips blood red, and wearing my twists in a severe bun atop my head. My friends told me I looked regal. A homeless woman called me out in the subway for wearing “two dollar pack hair.”
There were mixed messages, but I didn’t care. I was happy until I was bored.
When I went back to YouTube, I discovered that the Internet was over twists, and had moved into crocheting Marley hair. Though I loved the way it looked on other women, I yearned for something that looked a little bit more like my 4c texture hair. Marley hair, though coarse, sometimes has a sheen that looks unnatural. When I came across Cuban Twist Hair, I was stuck. It looked like my hair on a humid day. I looked at a few more tutorials, studying the technique and listening for reviews on the hair:
“The hair is soft.”
“The hair looks and feels like 4c hair.”
“This hair is everything.”
Ultimately the hair is $6 a pack, so I didn’t really have to agonize over it much. I purchased four packs and went to work. It was amazing – the hair looked like it was growing out of my head. Even the expensive clip-ins I’d splurged on didn’t blend this well.
The thing is, though, Cuban Twist Braid hair feels like sh*t.
To be fair, it doesn’t literally feel like human/animal excrement. It feels like steel wool you’d use to plug holes near pipes to keep out mice.
“Your hair looks amazing,” my best friend gushed as she went to touch the Cuban Twist Hair that was crocheted into my head.
“Thaaaanks,” I said as I resisted the urge to dodge her hands. “But it’s not for touching. I actually wouldn’t wear this hair if I had a boyfriend.”
We laughed, but I couldn’t help but wish someone on YouTube had told me what I’d just shared with her. You know, it’s nice, but not THAT nice. I also didn’t expect to meet someone shortly after.
I’m not anti-kanekalon. A person can’t, in good conscience, spend $6 on hair and expect a miracle. My issue is with some of the ‘faculty’ at my beloved YouTube University. Hair manufacturers send YouTube reviewers sh–ty hair and these reviewers are so happy to get free hair that they often feel compelled to soften the truth (I can’t blame them). To avoid making the mistakes that I did, consider reading the cesspool that is the YouTube comments section. Often, people who have had different experiences with products will share their stories and provide an alternative view. Also, be wary of anyone who received the hair in exchange for a review. Women who paid the $6 are obviously less encumbered.
While a better woman might have taken the hair out after realizing how truly bad the quality, I rocked with it. I loved how natural it looked, but I was constantly nervous about how other people were experiencing my hair. One night, as I laid my head on my brand new boo’s chest, I was paranoid with whether or not the tendrils were scratching him. I didn’t ask. I’ve learned not to ask questions I don’t want an answer to, but when I mentioned, a few weeks later, that I was about to take my hair out, he was way too excited about it.
I put it back in to spite him (I’m a jerk).
And I guess that’s my point: It’s one thing for me to feel a bit insecure about the texture of my cheap hair, but the choice is 100 percent mine to make.
I love so many things about Black women, but my favorite thing is that we boldly own what other women tend to hide: that there are so many different ways to be beautiful. There is the beautiful that comes from being carefully coiffed, anointed in expensive potions and dripping with gold. There is controversial beauty that comes from waist trainers and butt injections. But there is an equally fierce version of beauty that emerges from the stretchmarks around our arms. There’s the beauty that shines when we wake up. There is the beauty that comes from natural hair hit by humidity, and that beauty is feral. It cannot be contained. What we know, is that all versions are valid, and if we let it, even kanekalon becomes a crown.
(As relayed by Lauren R.D. Fox based on a culmination of experiences)
While on vacation in Denver, Colorado, I met Jay who lived in the surrounding area. We hooked up and the sex was so good I decided to hang out with him for the rest of my trip. Although my friends were peeved that I ditched them, I was in dire need of testosterone, especially after being on vacation for a week with six women.
During that time, Jay took me to his favorite restaurants and lounges. Everything was perfect — until one morning he suggested we go for a run. Now to be real, I had no business working out with my 20-inch Peruvian weave. By the time I met Jay, it had already been through so much—chlorine water, sweaty, smoked out clubs and me being too lazy to put a silk scarf on at night. But I began to really like Jay and didn’t want him to think I was “that” type of Black girl who didn’t participate in physical activities because of her hair. So I decided to take the “L” and run a few miles with Jay. Our run became a hike; Jay said he wanted me to see the impeccable view of the city. So again, I found myself taking one for the team in the name of lust and adventure.
By the time we made it to the top of the mountain, I felt proud of my physical capabilities but when Jay suggested we take a victory selfie, my happiness suddenly turned into fury. My leave out was in need of a flat iron and my weave a tangled mess. Although I tried to smile for our picture, Jay could tell I was upset.
He suggested we go back to his place so I could unwind and figure out my hair situation. By the time we got back to his place, I tried combing through my weave with my fingers, only for them to be met with knots. I washed my hair but that only made the situation worse. On the brink of tears, I told Jay he’s responsible and needed to pay me $200 for the damages caused by his run-turn-hike. “You’re wildin’’” Jay said as he chuckled, although I didn’t find the situation funny.
Should Jay pay me or am I overreacting?
Four months ago I did a big chop which, though traumatizing at first, I’ve actually come to really love. Still, the hair lover in me missed having a lot strands on my head and with the winter months finally arriving I knew a wash n’ go wouldn’t be a go for much longer, lest I want to catch the flu, so I reached out to Nubian Hair Oasis about trying one of their lines.
At the beginning of the fall we profiled Donnet Bruce, the founder of Nubian Hair Oasis, who balances her time between running the budding hair extensions line and her 9-5 as a Digital Marketing Manager. Impressed by her hustle and her product options, I decided to give the Empress Curls line a try.
Having rocked a curly weave for the first time two summers ago, I wanted to kick my look up a notch this go ’round with longer locks and more volume so I had two-and-a-half 16-inch bundles of the kinky curly virgin hair installed (the last time the hair was only 12 inches). During the install I was nervous because I didn’t want my look going from a little ‘fro to a big mane of hair to be too dramatic, but my stylist assured me I wasn’t going to be walking around the streets of New York City looking like Diana Ross circa 1972 so I let her go ahead and put more than two bundles in — and she saved half of the third bundle just to make sure I wouldn’t freak out at the difference.
At the end of the two-hour install I was in love. Because my hair matches the texture of the Empress curls and I no longer have straight ends from trying to transition to natural (benefits of a big chop), I’m able to easily blend my hair in with the extensions. Most times I do opt to pin my hair back for a better blend because my hair is so short in the front and since I didn’t have the weave cut into a particular style the short pieces at the top would stand out too much among the 16-inch strands. But I have to say from the remarks I’ve gotten from strangers about my curly hair, it’s safe to say anyone who doesn’t know me doesn’t know that this hair isn’t my own.
Maintenance during the past three weeks has been incredibly simple. After making the mistake of laying on the hair at night with just a silk pillow case one too many times and having to do some serious de-tangling in the morning, I’ve opted for the pineapple method of pinning my hair up on top of my head at night and in the morning spraying water on both my hair and the extensions to give it a boost. After dabbing on a bit of curling product, I’m good to go. Washing has been equally simple; after a quick shampoo and condition I just let the hair air dry with a leave-in or curly product of some sort after de-tangling and that’s all the work it takes.
If you want to give your hair a break in the winter months but still rock your same texture, I definitely suggest giving the Nubian Hair Oasis Crown Curls (afro kinky), Empress Curls (kinky curly) or Nubian Curly (loose curly) extension lines a try. MadameNoire readers who use the code MADAMEROYALS will get 15% off their orders!
And if any of you are looking for an install in New York City, definitely give Olivia M. at Bombshell Studios a ring. She’ll even come to your house if you need her to!
We told you earlier this week that a stylist had to put the hair of a client on blast after the woman left a sew-in installed for nearly a year. Mold grew all up and through that thing, and the sight of it still makes the hair on my body stand up. Yikes!
To keep you all from allowing anything nearly as disgusting from happening to your heads, we chatted with LaKenya Morris, owner of Allure Beauty Bar in Atlanta, and a star of WEtv’s Cutting It In The ATL. A weave specialist, the talented stylist, and entrepreneur is known for creating custom wigs, weaves, and extensions. Morris says her priority is to maintain the integrity and health of hair. So we asked her, what are the do’s and don’ts of wearing a weave while taking care of your own hair underneath? She broke it down with 10 succinct but helpful tips on what to do when wearing a weave.
DO Be Realistic About Your Style Goals
And that includes those parts! But seriously, try to go for a style that looks natural and be realistic about how long it needs to be in your head.
What’s the longest you’ve worn a sew-in for?
Professionals say two months should be the maximum amount of time you stretch a weave. And yet, people continue to push the limits. Like the woman in this video posted online who showed what happens when you try to make a sew-in work for more almost a year. The results are quite icky–and moldy.
— Edamame Mudiay (@__broke) December 27, 2015
But she’s not the first person to have their hair put on blast for allowing mold to grow so much underneath a weave they wouldn’t have removed. Remember this woman?
And there was this woman, whose hair folly was shared on Lipstick Alley:
Obviously, this is nothing new. Still, it’s not only gross, but it’s also dangerous. You don’t want mold growing in such massive proportions that it’s spreading down deep into your scalp and possibly making you ill, all for a hairstyle. Jesus, take the weave.
It seems that famed South African trumpeter, composer, and Pan-Africanist Hugh Masekela, best known for “Grazing in the Grass” and organizing the Zaire 74 festival to promote Muhammad Ali and George Foreman’s Rumble in the Jungle, is not too keen on Black women wearing the wet and wavy.
According to the South Africa City Press, Masekela caused quite a bit of a stir recently while receiving an honorary doctorate from Rhodes University. He refused to take pictures with any Black women wearing hair extensions. As reported by the paper, the trumpeter told a student who just had taken a picture with him,”You’re lucky that you were sneaky enough to have him take a picture of you next to me, otherwise I would have refused. I don’t take pictures with girls who have your kind of hair.”
Masekela continued his rant against the “sneaky” student and other wig and weave wearers during a follow-up press conference at the University in which he added, “We spend about a billion rand on other people’s hair each year. I don’t even know where to begin on this issue.”
As the paper reports, he also had words for the youth of South Africa, in general, who he accused of turning their backs on their culture, including their native tongues, storytelling, and even music.
And here we go again…
We get it: Some of you don’t personally like weaves. However, the obsession that some of our people have with Black women and hair extensions, including making false analogies about self-love and weave-wearers’ alleged commitment to their culture and people, is way past the point of healthy. And sanity for that matter. Every Black woman with a blonde lace-front isn’t trying to be a white woman. Sometimes she’s just a woman with a preference for a certain tacky hair color and style. And we talk so much about the billions Black women are supposedly giving away to the Asians based upon our hairstyle choices like Black men aren’t out here giving away “our” money to Nike, Konig (who makes rims) and every Arab in cheap gold shops.
Never mind how we continue to be abused, underpaid, assaulted and sometimes killed for just being Black women in various parts of this world. According to some of these so-called Pan-Africanists, the worst thing that white supremacy has ever done to Black women is brainwash us into rocking the 100-percent Brazilian. And this is why I have a hard time taking folks seriously.
However, what makes Masekela’s sentiments even more peculiar as he received his honorary degree at Rhodes University is that earlier in the month, students, including some who wear weaves, were engaged in massive protest to demand that the school remove the statue of Cecil Rhodes from the campus. For those who are unaware, Rhodes was not only the founder of the college, but also a British imperialist who is responsible for colonizing Rhodesia, which today is known as Zimbabwe.
As reported by The Daily Vox, The “Rhodes Must Fall Movement,” as the students call themselves, was formed over a month ago and seeks to “decolonize higher education.” And not just at Rhodes University, but on other college campuses throughout South Africa. Outside of the removal of the statue, students want the university to hire more Black academics and offer more Afrocentric curriculum options.
And as The Daily Vox notes:
This means creating a campus environment that is welcoming to black students. The response from some UCT students to the Rhodes Must Fall movement has revealed the day-to-day racism that slips under the campus radar – white students calling black students in the movement “monkeys” and “k****rs” or “savages” who “destroy everything they touch” on social media; black staff and students frequently reduced to tears by the racism they encounter from their peers.
“When we say ‘Rhodes Must Fall’ we mean that patriarchy must fall, that white supremacy must fall, that all systematic oppression based on any power relations of difference must be destroyed at all costs,” Kealeboga Ramaru, a student in the movement, said just before the statue fell.
Thus far, the students have been successful in their aim to get the university’s administration to remove the statue, which was taken down and housed in a secret location earlier this month. Kudos to them. There should have been some acknowledgment of the brave efforts of these students to decolonize their campuses. Yet, when asked his thoughts on the student-led activism, the City Press reports that Masekela was “dismissive” saying that the youth should focus on “bigger problems,” like poverty, inequality and crime. And then he went in on Black women and hair weaves…
Funny how a Pan-Africanist can have so much to say about Black women and their hairstyle choices — in the name of protecting the heritage and the collective wealth of African people — yet be so dismissive when it comes to actual efforts to decolonize. Even funnier is that this ardent protector of African aesthetics and values would even bother showing up to accept an honorary degree from an institution not only founded on the principals of erasing the local culture, but a university that continues to deny his people a place on its campus.
He should have been standing on the front lines and taking pictures with all of the students, including the ones with weaves. Instead, he chose to use Black women as a wedge and engage in the same sort of policing that has held our people back globally. That’s why it is hard to take some Pan-Africanists seriously when they act no different than the oppressors.
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