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Lorena Bobbitt Says Her Ex Husband Still Tries To Contact Her

November 10th, 2015 - By Veronica Wells
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In 1993, when Lorena Bobbitt cut off her then husband’s penis and threw it into a field, I was only six-years-old. But with an action like that, Bobbitt’s name would be floating around in the lexicon for years to come. Not only were there a ton of news stories about her, there were pop culture references, jokes and a whole lot more. So it wasn’t long before I had to ask my parents who she was.

They told me that she had cut off her husband’s penis.

What they didn’t tell me was that she claimed her husband raped her that very same night. But it wasn’t just the rape. She claimed that her husband John Bobbitt  forced her to have an abortion, consistently threw his infidelity in her face and emotionally, physically and sexually abused her. With the exception of the the rape allegation, there were witnesses to support that she had indeed been abused and that it had escalated since the beginning of their marriage in 1989.

After Lorena Bobbitt was found not guilty by way of temporary insanity, from all the abuse she’d endured, she and her husband parted ways. She went by her maiden name and tried to keep a low profile, while John Bobbitt starred in a porno, John Wayne Bobbitt: Uncut , to make money. (Once authorities located John’s penis they were able to successfully reattach it.)

Recently, Lorena appeared on the Steve Harvey show to talk about how her life has changed since that summer night in 1993.

She talked about how she’d remarried a man named Dave Bellinger, who never mentions the incident that made her a household name. The couple now have a 10-year-old daughter and even opened a foundation for victims of domestic violence, which I will expound upon later.

But what I found most interesting is the fact that she said her ex-husband made several attempts to contact her.

She told Harvey, “He tried, but I always deleted his number.”

She didn’t say much right then, but a quick wikipedia search revealed that the couple appeared together on “The Insider” in 2009, in their first meeting since their divorce. After saying he didn’t realize she was so sensitive, he apologized  to Lorena for the way he treated her during their marriage and Lorena told the world that he still sent her Valentine’s Day cards and flowers. John said that it was a friend of his that was contacting her, not him.


If any good came of this situation, it’s the organization Lorena founded, called “Lorena’s Red Wagon.”

She told Harvey,

“It basically helps women and children through family-oriented activities…I can provide for them. When a victim leaves the house they don’t have time to pack. They just have the first opportunity to leave. If any child in the shelter has a birthday we bring cakes…I want to bring hope to women and children of domestic abuse, and that’s what we do.”

As you might assume, Harvey was full of jokes when Bobbitt first came on stage. But by the end of the interview, he commended her for turning her tragedy into a vehicle to help other battered women and their children.

You can watch her interview with Harvey in the video below.

“I Don’t Want To Let Her Go” Steve Harvey Gets Emotional Walking Daughter Down The Aisle

November 9th, 2015 - By Veronica Wells
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Dancing with my Dad. #weddingday #fatherdaughterdance #TeamRaymond

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Steve Harvey is a lot of things. You either love him or hate him. But he’s always struck me as a good father. And his twin daughters Karli and Brandi are lovely ladies. So I was excited to see the news that his daughter Karli was getting married to entrepreneur and business owner Ben Raymond.

Naturally, her father was the one to walk her down the aisle.

But it wasn’t an easy task for Steve or Karli. Both fought back tears and tried not to look at each other as they were preparing to step into the ceremony space. It was a beautiful moment you’ll just have to watch to completely grasp.

Check it out in the video below.

Ben and Karli tied the knot months ago and are just returning from their honeymoon in Bali and Hong Kong. They joined their father and father-in-law on “The Steve Harvey Show” to talk about their wedding day, the honeymoon and about the first holiday season they’ll be spending together, living under the same roof.

You can watch this episode of “The Steve Harvey” show airing today. Check local listings for time and channel in your city, here.

This Is What Steve Harvey Thinks About Tyrese And Other Stars Releasing Relationship Books

June 22nd, 2015 - By Brande Victorian
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Steve Harvey low-key changed the game when he released "Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man" in 2009. Not only did he have women going crazy trying to follow his advice -- or discredit it -- he seemingly paved the way for other famous men to decide to impart their so-called relationship wisdom on the masses as well. Tyrese, we're looking at you.

So what does the "King of Comedy" think about these male entertainers attempting to follow in his footsteps? That's what we asked Steve Harvey on the "Family Feud" set in LA a few weeks ago and his answer had us cracking up. Watch and tell us what you think.

Deepak Nope-rah: 11 Times Stars Wanted Us To Believe They Were Deep When They Actually Sounded Crazy

May 1st, 2015 - By Desiree Bowie
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We’ve all had those moments when we read a celeb quote that made us roll our eyes and shake our heads because the star absolutely tried it. Thanks to social media, you can always expect a head-scratch worthy quote from a fake deep celeb. Let’s take a look at 11 times celebs did the absolute most.


We Can’t Take A Joke Because This Is Our Life: Woman Goes All The Way In On Steve Harvey For Special Needs Joke

March 31st, 2015 - By Veronica Wells
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Woman Goes All The Way In On Steve Harvey For Special Needs Joke feat

I might be one of the few Black women in my circle and among circles like mine that actually doesn’t have a huge problem with Steve Harvey. Sure, I find his relationship advice a bit trite and some of his observations dismissive and offensive; but I also think he’s funny most of the time. And having seen what he does with young men and the mentoring he does at Disney every year, I see the good in him as well.

So yeah, Steve Harvey is problematic for sure. But honestly, he reminds me of a lot of Black men in his age range.

But when someone’s egregiously wrong, you just can’t ride for that.

And that’s what happened last week when Harvey, playing on of his characters, Sister Odell, started telling a story about a 34-year-old woman with a mental disability, complete with offensive noises and more.

Well, one mother, whose daughter is on the Autism spectrum was not happy about it. At.all. And after she dropped her children off at school that morning, she recorded this impassioned video message for Mr. Harvey and comedians like him.

I’ll transcribe some excerpts, but it’s best to watch the full nearly five minute video to get the full perspective.

For those who can’t watch, here are some of the highlights:

This is now my fourth time recording this video because I’m trying to keep it clean. I’m so pissed, it’s been laced with profanities. I want this video to be shared so I’m trying to keep it as clean as possible.

She describes the offense: 

This morning, Steve Harvey, as Sister Odell, made a “joke”  about Easter Sunday and going to church and something to the affect of the sister next to me has a daughter who is slow and she’s always blowing bubbles in the service. And then Shirley and all his crew are laughing…And then he says, ‘Oh yeah, they dress her in little pink dresses, and little bobby socks and she 34-years-old but got the mind of a four year old.

Then her emotional reaction

The fact that he is making this joke on such a public program, that disturbed me… I don’t understand why comedians still use people with special needs as their go-to joke to get laughs. Damon Wayans did it with “In Living Color,” when I was 9-years-old watching that show, even then I was like ‘Damn, this is really messed up.’ And I didn’t even have anyone in my family who had special needs. I was always taught that you don’t make fun of people who cannot change that about them… And over the years, I have realized that every comedian does it or has done it. Rickey Smiley does it all the time. I am no longer a Rickey Smiley fan because of this.

I just want Steve Harvey and all comedians to know that this is not funny. This is our life! I have a child with autism, which is a developmental delay, that means that that child who I take to church, who may enjoy blowing bubbles or playing with a toy to keep her calm, so I can get get the world. That is what I’m going to do. That’s the child you’re making fun of.

Get some other material. Why are you constantly making fun? I’m sorry we have to deal with this ‘Oh my gosh, we have kids with special needs and we’re so sensitive and we can’t take a joke.’ No! We can’t take a joke because this is our life. Stop making fun of people with special needs. It’s not funny. It is never funny. There’s no joke about it.

You have a perfect life. You have your family, you have your millions, you have Marjorie and all your kids. And they come on your show and tell you what a great dad you are…why do you have to do this? You don’t have to do this. You hosted “Family Feud,” you hosted your talk show, you have your morning show. Anything you want to do, you can do. You do not need to make fun of people with special needs. So stop it please, damn! Like, do you need me to write your material for you? Goddamn I don’t understand why you’re still doing this, it’s not funny…

And then she gets cut off.

According to the description on the YouTube account where this was originally posted, this mother wrote:

Please LIKE, SHARE and COMMENT – I really want this to go as far as it can go!
Steve Harvey may not see it, nor even care to hear what I am saying, but there are TONS of people who need to hear this!
My phone stopped recording before I was done, but you get the point. (You didn’t miss anything in the end; just me crying before getting out of my car.)
Please help me spread the word to ALL comedians/comedienne’s that this practice is extremely hurtful to many members of the Special Needs community!
There has GOT to be other material out here!
I don’t even attend comedy shows anymore because I know that I’m going to hear foolishness like this from at least one comedian.
It has got to stop!
Thanks for listening.
#autismawareness #specialneeds #specialneedsawareness #steveharvey #thesteveharveymorningshow

It looks like Steve Harvey did get wind of the video…or perhaps the other comments expressing outrage.


He said the apology was sincere but I’m going to have to call b.s. Everyone knows a sincere apology doesn’t offer excuses or rationale for bad behavior. In fact, the best apologies take full responsibility and vow to do better. And Steve didn’t do any of that here. Saying that we all can be offended by comedy at times, suggests that he doesn’t understand the gravity of the situation. And I can only hope he sits with this for a little while longer.

But as for this crunk mother…I actually really like that she got so fired up at the very end. What she said, and the way she said it needed to be stated a long time ago. I’ve been watching “Comic View” since I was child and I can attest to the fact that far too often jokes about the special needs community come up. And it’s not only lazy, it’s incredibly hurtful for people who may know or are caring for someone else with special needs. What’s particularly damaging about all of this is the example it sets for the younger generation. As I said, I was a child watching “Comic View” and like this mother, I was taught that you don’t make fun of people, period, but especially people with special needs. Had I not been taught that and if I found humor in those jokes, I could have been like so many of my peers who took those jokes to school to use on children who did and didn’t live with special needs. The cycle perpetuates itself. As a parent of an able bodied and able-minded child, there are already worries and concerns about your child being accepted and respected by their peer group. I can’t imagine the worry, anxiety parents of children with special needs feel sending their children into school; but also, worrying that their children might face ostracism from adults who should know and do better.

Steve Harvey Shares His Story, Words Of Advice At Success Conference

March 24th, 2015 - By Blair Bedford
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Echoing his second best-selling book, Steve Harvey’s Act Like A Success, Think Like A Success Conference in Washington D.C., presented by Strayer University, gathered entrepreneurs and aspiring business owners looking to kick start their own personal and professional success. Author and television personality Steve Harvey, along with speakers like Paul C. Brunson, Lisa Nichols and more, joined together to discuss network building, building multiple streams of revenue and the tools to be a success in and out of the office. As the host of the conference, Harvey presented the keynote speech, in which he mentored and motivated hundreds of attendees with his own experiences of achieving success.

“The road to success is always under construction,” Harvey assured the crowd in attendance, describing his own experiences with failure and success, including how he lost it all in 2005 as his marriage and career fell apart, just to fully regain his life and bounce back with two lucrative best-selling books, a booming television career and the marriage he’s envisioned for years.

“I retired from stand-up [comedy] in August of 2012 to get to where I am today. You always have to give up something to get something,” he added.

Behind the scenes of the conference, MadameNoire and other press outlets sat down with Steve Harvey and got his personal, one-on-one advice on the importance of executing a plan for success, supporting your children to become successful, and how being transparent and authentic helped his success, and can move you towards yours.

Len Spoden Photography for Strayer University

Len Spoden Photography for Strayer University

On being transparent to inspire others:

This is what happened to me. My divorce is public knowledge, I’m a college dropout, I lived in my car, I was homeless, I made a mess of my life, and this is how I’m living now. I lost the guilt I feel about how I’m living now. I work very hard and go to work every day. I give honor to God for allowing me to come up and get over. If He can do that for me, why can you imagine it happening for you?

On being afraid of success:

I don’t know if they are afraid of success more than they are afraid of what it takes to be successful. It’s the same reason people don’t eat right, because something tastes so good, they are not going to give up that taste to sacrifice for just a few more years on the planet. How can you make people successful?

You can’t drive your car looking in the rear view mirror. That’s why the windshield of your car is bigger than your rear view mirror. Your rear view mirror is just so you can look and make sure you passed so you’re clear and can switch lanes. That’s all it’s for. You’re not supposed to stare at it and wish you were back there. You’re going to crash. If you keep looking in the rear view mirror, you’re going to crash your car.

On not creating and executing a plan after finding your gift:

I don’t see why after you’ve discovered and recognized your gift, [you wouldn’t]do anything with it. That’s an injustice to yourself. Why would you have this wonderful thing inside of you and never explore it? Why wouldn’t you take a chance and see where it takes you? Your gift is free. If you’re living your life and it’s not what you want and there was an opportunity for the application of your gift, for you to sit there and not doing something about it is such an injustice to yourself. I can’t even tell the joy I had when I was living in my car. I was doing the thing that I was born to do. I didn’t want to give it up just to get a job and get an apartment. I was cool living in my car and pursuing my dreams because I knew it wasn’t permanent. I kept grinding and hustling. I would rather live in my purpose and having the freedom in knowing that I’m doing what I was born to do.


Len Spoden Photography for Strayer University

Len Spoden Photography for Strayer University

On being authentic on stage:

All I can be is me. I know they have more education then me. I know they have more corporate value then me. I’m not that polished and I know that. But what has been the most effective part for me throughout my entire career and make my fan base gravitate towards me is my authenticity. I am just who I am. Whoever it is, corporate executives, presidents, CEOs, business owners, you’re in [the audience] because you want some more, so let me tell you what got me more.

On parenting your children for success:

One thing I tell parents is that you try to beat the education into your kids. That’s cool, but you can save yourself a lot of pain if every 45 days, you sit your child down and just talk to them about their dreams. It’s a conversation they’d rather have anyway. If you really get them to talk about their dreams, whether they want to be a pilot or own a gas station or be a doctor or a lawyer, their dreams will spur them to get an education. But we don’t talk to our kids about their dreams. Find out what your child wants to be. Talk to them about their dreams. You’d be surprised how many conversations you could stop having about school once they understand that to get to their dreams, here are the steps they have to take. All of a sudden, science might be a little more interesting to them.

On remaining positive to become and stay successful:

You got to understand something about your brain. It operates in two sections: good, evil; positive, negative; right or wrong; righteous or unjust. It’s always a ying and a yang in your brain. The brain is like a factory; it manufactures whatever you tell it to. When you wake up in the morning, you can instruct whichever foreman you want to to go back to the factory and tell the workers to manufacture. Since I’m the boss, I just wake up and since I’m the boss, I tell my foremen what to do no matter what happens, there can be a positive result. If a door closes, I am to assume that there’s a better door opening for me to go through. I only look for the positive. I don’t care what the negative is.

The worst thing you can do is tell your big dreams to a small-minded person. I stay only on the positive side, no matter what the analysis of the situation is.

Good for the Soul: Uplifting Audiobooks To Mend Your Spirit

March 8th, 2015 - By Rich
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It’s true, we don’t nourish our spirits enough. We recently put together a list of 15 spirit mending things to try and on that list included taking time out to listen to an uplifting or encouraging audiobook. As a busy mom, there’s no telling when you’ll have time to actually read a book, so why not listen to one? Click continue to check out 15 great audiobooks to buy from Maya Angelou to Steve Harvey.

Good For the Soul: Uplifting Audiobooks To Mend Your Spirit

Failure Is The Wonderful Teacher: Steve Harvey, Yolanda Adams, Mikki Taylor & More Share Words Of Inspiration

March 6th, 2015 - By Veronica Wells
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Steve Harvey, Yolanda Adams, Mikki Taylor & More Share Words Of Inspiration

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While the Disney Dreamers Academy exists solely to encourage and influence the high school students who participate in the program, every year members of the media and anyone else who hears the speakers, will leave inspired. Yesterday, Steve Harvey welcomed the students to the Disney Dreamer’s Academy. And immediately afterward, spoke to the media, along with gospel singer Yolanda Adams Essence’s Editor at Large, Mikki Taylor and a Dreamer’s Academy alum, 20-year-old Princeton Parker.

Check out the words of wisedom they shared with us yesterday and hopefully you’ll be encouraged as well.

Steve Harvey on preserving the dream

Everybody got a gift but that dream as we get older– and what we trying to here at Disney is make sure that dream stays lit as a fire. All of us had dreams. Some of us let them go along the way cause you get older, you have a baby, get a family, get into a bad relationship and all of a sudden you start parking it right there. You not supposed to do that. So we try to grab these kids at an early age. Before they know that they can’t do something.

I pulled my phone out to show Yolanda (Adams) my vision board. Yolanda looked at it and one of the numbers was $1 billion. And she looked at it for just four seconds she said ‘Steve change that to a three.’ I said, ‘Yo, that’s a $1 billion dollars. That ain’t no million girl.’ She said, ‘I know what a billion dollars is boy.’ You don’t think I went home and got my son–cuz I don’t know how to do it–I got my son and changed that number to a 3. Because she taught me something that night. Faith is the belief in things that you cannot see. God don’t give you what you want. You know how many times you said you wanted something and you ain’t never get it? That’s because he’s waiting on you to believe it. And ever since that day, I’ve made four business deals and I stopped making my business deals based on my current need today and I started making my business decisions based on the future. Not to make a few million right now. But how do I get to that big number. She changed the way that I thought. And that’s what we try to get these kids to understand. The only difference between rich people and poor people is how we think. Poor people think poor. If you’re poor it’s because you think poor.

Mikki Taylor on the importance of knowing yourself

It really comes down to knowing your value. I believe who God says I am and I give him the credit. And all I have to do is keep self out of the way so I can show up ready for what he’s called me to do. And when you beleive in that, that’s so much bigger and higher than you, that you even fail well because you understand what to do with adversity.

Steve Harvey Morning Show Co-Host Shirley Strawberry Got Married!

January 12th, 2015 - By Veronica Wells
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Ladies, I know there is a lot of internal and external pressure to be married and have kids, all before your 30th birthday. But that’s not everybody’s story. And frankly, there is plenty of life and love after 30 years old. If you don’t believe me, you need look no further than Shirley Strawberry.

Strawberry, the relationship expert and co-host on Steve Harvey’s popular morning show is well past 30, and married Ernesto Williams, 50, on Friday.

The couple got engaged last summer when Ernesto proposed to Shirley live on the radio.

In case you couldn’t really tell from the video, Ernesto is a very nice looking man. He and Shirley just so happened to get married on his birthday, January 10; and before they tied the knot, Shirley posted this picture in tribute to him, where we can fully see what he’s got going on.

Happy Birthday honey! I can't wait to marry you tonight! @nestosbuckhead 😘😍💍👰🎩❤️🍓

A photo posted by Shirley Strawberry (@mygirlshirley) on

Williams is an entrepreneur, whose businesses have been featured in The New York Times and other publications. Williams has been a barber for over 20 years and has managed to create some pretty lucrative business platforms as a result, including “The 24 Hour Barber Shop.”

Shirley did very well for herself.

So now that we know what Shirley’s working with, check out the pictures and videos from the wedding.

Seeing Double: 15 Twin Celebrity Kids

January 5th, 2015 - By Rich
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Steve Harvey,  Denzel Washington, Nick and Mariah, Sarah Jessica Parker and countless other celebs who have had twins were hit with a double blessing when their new bundles of joy arrived. Many of these stars had to undergo fertility treatments to bring these babies into their homes. Congrats to all!

Sources: TwinsWorld, Ranker, All images courtesy of WENN


Seeing Double: 15 Twin Celebrity Kids