All Articles Tagged "sexually adventurous"

Searching For Myself: 9 Ways We Lose Ourselves in Relationships And How To Fix It!

March 24th, 2013 - By Brooke Dean
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Over the past year, I’ve lost over 50 pounds. I’m not saying that to brag; I’m saying it because I’m pretty amazed at myself. It’s not because I didn’t think I could do it or because the thought of not eating carbs makes me sad. I’m surprised because I’m in a relationship. I know that may sound strange, but usually when I’m happy with a man, I put on the “love pounds.” You know, the weight some of us gain when we’re happily in love and feeling secure and accepted in our relationship.

When I’m single however, I have more time to go to the gym and eat healthier because I have no one else to focus on but myself. So why should we allow ourselves to let ourselves go when we’re in a relationship? Gaining weight is not the only way people can lose touch with themselves when coupled up. It seems for some of us, the more comfortable we are in our relationship, the more we can neglect our own well-being and those around us – losing ourselves in the process. A good relationship should bring out the best in us; but if we’re not mindful and careful of these warning signs, there’s a chance being punch drunk in love can keep us from being our best selves.

Ladies, You’re Not Off the Hook! 9 Mistakes That Women Make in Bed

December 29th, 2012 - By Brooke Dean
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Not too long ago, we posted an article on the most common mistakes men make in bed. Well guess what, ladies It’s YOUR turn. You didn’t think you were getting off free and clear did you? Sure, Madamenoire.com is geared towards women but that doesn’t mean we can’t check ourselves every once in a while – especially when it comes to sex. While I’m sure a lot of my sistas are holding in down in the bedroom, there could be a few things we probably need to address. Men often say that it is hard (no pun intended) to have bad sex but ladies, please don’t pat your collective selves on the back. We have work to do! Let’s explore these common female frisky faux pas.

You Really Think You’re Doing Something, Huh? 9 Mistakes Men Make in Bed

November 25th, 2012 - By Brooke Dean
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When it comes to sex, it goes without saying that men and women have very different expectations as well as likes and dislikes. None of us are exactly the same when it comes to what turns us on or off, but there are some things that most women agree on when it comes to determining if we allow him back in our bed or not.

Guys, if you’ve managed to have sex with her once, but you now find that she’s MIA after your encounter, chances are you did or said something wrong in the sack and she’s not eager for a repeat. If you get your cues from adult videos or your boys, you might’ve been led astray…and here are 9 things that you might be doing that SOME women hate in bed.

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