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For most people, sex is a major part of a romantic relationship. So when you remove that component things can get a little tricky.  We took to the streets of New York to see what the people had to say. Check out their responses and then feel free to answer this question for yourself in the comments’ section below.

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From YourTango.com

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Want to spice things up in the bedroom? Make his night and drive him crazy with these sex positions that men love. Ultimately, sex is about love and intimacy, so while the positions are part of the fun, the real payoff is the way various maneuvers allow you to connect and explore each other in different ways.

1. Woman on Top: Ask your guy what drives him crazy in the bedroom, and we’re betting he’ll say it’s pleasing you. This swexy position puts you in the driver’s seat, and that’s exactly where he wants you. Take advantage of being in control and set the pace according to what you like, leaving his hands free to roam. The bonus? He loves having your curves in full view…so flip on the lights and give him a show.

For more possible positions, visit YourTango.com.

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From HelloBeautiful.com

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When it comes to the best friend’s ex there are two rules:

1) Never hook up with them

2) Only date them.

Our dating experts discuss whether it’s ever okay to date your BFF’s ex.

For the juicy takes on he said/she said, visit HelloBeautiful.com.

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Here is the extended cut of Episode 3 from Ask A Black Man, just like we promised! In this version, you can expect to see more questions asked, as well as more discussion between our panelists. This is The Sex Episode, so expect the discussion to be a little racy.

As always, please be respectful of each other and the men in the comments. Thanks in advance!

MORE ASK A BLACK MAN:

• Series Sneak Peek [Trailer]
• Episode 1: The Life of A Single Man
• Episode 1: The Life of A Single Man [Extended Cut]
• Episode 2: The Dating Episode
• Episode 2: The Dating Episode [Extended Cut]
• Episode 3: The SEX Episode
• Episode 3: The SEX Episode [Extended Cut]
• Episode 4: The Marriage Episode
• Episode 4: The Marriage Episode [Extended Cut]

MEET THE “ASK A BLACK MAN” CAST

• Host: Kela Walker
• Panama Jackson
• Lester
• Dozie
• Mo
• Skoob
• Bentley Kapten
• Birchell Glenn
• Jeff
• Demetrius Travis
• Devale Ellis
• LC 
• Stephen
• Marco G.
• L.A. 
• Zarette
• Brannue Life 
• George 2.0 

We’re back with a fresh new episode of Ask A Black Man! In this episode, a new panel of men discuss the trials and tribulations of S-E-X. Panama is joining us for another episode, while LC (Lawrence), Marco, Lester and Stephen represent for the first time on stage. Our lovely host Kela Walker holds it down for the ladies, per the usual.

Watch this episode now, and click here to see the extended version of The Sex Episode. We couldn’t fit all the questions, answers and commentary from the men into this episode, but you can watch the whole thing at 6pm tonight. You won’t wanna miss the rest of this discussion!

MORE ASK A BLACK MAN:

• Series Sneak Peek [Trailer]
• Episode 1: The Life of A Single Man
• Episode 1: The Life of A Single Man [Extended Cut]
• Episode 2: The Dating Episode
• Episode 2: The Dating Episode [Extended Cut]
• Episode 3: The SEX Episode
• Episode 3: The SEX Episode [Extended Cut]
• Episode 4: The Marriage Episode
• Episode 4: The Marriage Episode [Extended Cut]

MEET THE “ASK A BLACK MAN” CAST

• Host: Kela Walker
• Panama Jackson
• Lester
• Dozie
• Mo
• Skoob
• Bentley Kapten
• Birchell Glenn
• Jeff
• Demetrius Travis
• Devale Ellis
• LC 
• Stephen
• Marco G.
• L.A. 
• Zarette
• Brannue Life 
• George 2.0 

From HelloBeautiful.com

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Sometimes the hygienic things we’re told to do down there are in reality not good for our vaginal health. Here’s five things that you should avoid doing to your private parts:

1. Use Soaps With Parabens
We first want to point out that “cleaning” down there doesn’t need to be a huge process. Using harsh soaps and cleansers can disrupt your vagina’s pH level (which is naturally acidic) and cause irritation and discomfort. The vagina is a self-cleaning part of the body that does a great job at keeping things regulated.

That being said, sometimes you do want to freshen up down there. If you feel the need, just make sure the product you use is mild and paraben-free, like these Afterglow Freshening Wipes. Why paraben-free? Here’s the low-down:

For four more below-the-belt tips, visit HelloBeautiful.com.

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From EurWeb.com

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Hot soulful singer Trey Songz is hitting his fans with a new album, “Chapter V.”

He stopped by “The Breakfast Club” to talk about the new music, relationships, sex and love.

Trey told the audience he’s got a method to his music madness, explaining that he and his record label have an agreement to release mixtapes to build reputation and fans. So now his album is about to be released.

As far as love and sex is concerned, the singer figured out that love is much more magical and wonderful than sex.

For the complete story and video, visit EurWeb.com

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From YourTango.com

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It’s something every girl has wondered: am I good in bed? Sure, like kissing, much of it may have to do with compatibility—what might be hot for one guy could be just plain freaky to the next. But no matter what your guy’s preferences are, here are the 7 signs to know that you’re rocking his socks off:

For the signs, visit YourTango.com

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“She needs to be hot. She needs to be hot and nice. She needs to be hot and nice and smart. Maybe it’s a little more complicated than that…” In a nutshell, there is the progression of a man’s thoughts on what a girlfriend must be from the moment he starts to like girls in his teens to, well, a little bit later. But, essentially, as men move from one woman to the next, they tend to keep an eye out that the next one will be better than the previous in the following ways.

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Men and women lie – there’s no doubt about that. I’m not sure if there’s ever a good excuse for lying, but we may always be able to offer a “reason.” We can say that men and women lie for different reasons, but at the end of the day, my guess is that men and women lie to either save their behind or spare our feelings (or both). Most men think women are emotionally fragile creatures who can’t handle the truth – and here are a few examples of “good lies” (if there is such a thing) that men tell us to keep the peace….

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