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I have gotten a number of comments via this column that have made me pretty sad. As you can see, I’m writing about sex. And my end goal is to encourage women to feel empowered to seek out a sort of happy and healthy sexual life, be it celibacy, monogamy or something in between. That’s not to say that I advocate doing any or everything you want sexually…I personally do believe everyone should have some moral compass and the ability to know when indulging desire is a bad thing. But overall, I do have an agenda here and that agenda is “sex positivity”: making empowered choices, accepting responsibility and managing one’s own satisfaction.
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An all-too familiar scenario: Malik meets Stephanie. He thinks she’s attractive, but for whatever reason, he isn’t interested in much more than a physical relationship with her. Stephanie thinks Malik is all around awesome. They go on a few dates and start sleeping together. Malik is actively meeting and courting other women while calling girl for crazy amazing sex sessions. Stephanie is frustrated that she isn’t being treated like a girlfriend, yet she continues the affair in hopes that he will soon see how great she is. Malik knows exactly how Stephanie feels about him, yet he continues sleeping with her. Pain ensues.
Ladies, how many of you have had amazing sex with your partner from the first time you got it popping? Good for you if you have, but for many folks, it takes a little bit longer to grow the connection and build up the collective repoire. Even if you are burning with desire for your (wo)man, you still may find a couple of bumps in the road to mutual bliss: he likes it fast, she likes it slow. He says “let there be light!”, but she would rather do it in the dark. So how do you make it work?
Head is a hot topic around these parts, huh? Another reader is having a cunninlingus condundrum:
Help me Sister Toldja!
My man sucks at going down on me. It’s awful and boring. I don’t want to hurt his feelings, but I really enjoy getting (and recieving) oral pleasure…but there is nothing pleasureable about what he does down there. If women got erections, I wouldn’t be able to keep mine while he was down there licking my honeypot like an uninspired stray puppy. Please give me some tips on how I can get him to do this thing correctly!
Poor thing. Bad head < no head at all! Here are a couple of tips to get that mouth on the right track…
packagematization. It is one of the most prevalent issues plaguing women today and it’s at its peak in the waning summer days when a woman realizes that her great new relationship is just a seasonal fling to Mr. Wonderful. Have no fear! We’re here to help. Here are a few symptoms and cures for mild cases of fiending. (Note: Extreme fiending may require a vow of celibacy.)