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In this day and age when the news consists of videos of Black bodies being beaten and murdered in broad daylight, when Black folks, rich and poor, male and female are being tested and tried daily, and in a country, where Donald Drumpf is the Republican nominee for President of the United States, it’s very clear that we’re living in racist, xenophobic, hate-filled times. And it’s not just the people in the news. It is the folks who live in regular cities and towns throughout the country who have subscribed to these hate-filled ideologies and are perpetuating that hate in their everyday lives.
A recent incident from South Florida shows these dangerous ideals at work. Thankfully, this incident ended justly.
It happened when a young Black woman, who goes by the name “HeyMrsAmerica” on social media was out walking her dog in Florida. An older White woman saw her and started following her. Eventually the young woman stopped and asked if the elderly woman would like for her to leave her property. She told her it wasn’t her property but still made it very clear that she didn’t want the young, Black woman there.
The interaction escalated from there.
Take a look.
For those who can’t watch right now, be sure you check this out when you can.
But in the meantime you can read the account from HeyMrsAmerica herself, via her Tumblr.
Ok, so I’m walking the dog around the corner from my man’s new spot right, and behind there, there’s a little creek so I walked her along there up until you couldn’t walk anymore. All but two houses going down that way have their backyard fenced or gated, but there’s a definite distinction as to what is people’s backyard and what isn’t so I stayed as far off to where it’s obvious that it isn’t backyard as possible.
Mojito is chasing iguanas and I’m talking to my mom and out of the corner of my eye I see an older woman coming my way. My first thought was she must be telling me to come move, understandable, whatever.
I let her get a bit closer, put my mom on hold for a second and in the most respectful way literally said “I’m sorry m’am, am I trespassing? Would you like me to leave?” Because if I was it was totally understandable ya know?
That’s when all holy hell broke loose.
This butter biscuit proceeds to start pointing her finger and talking shit for literally no reason. I couldn’t make out what all she was saying at first, because I’m steady listening to my mom in my ear tell me to walk away, and then of course I started yelling back at her because she picked the absolute worst time to try me. BUT IM WALKING AWAY.
She starts following me and at that point I told my mom I had to call her back so I could record this woman, because she was going bananas.
She wasn’t making any sense. Telling me I’m from south Miami like I even knew what that meant, literally getting in my face, following me as I’m trying to just walk away.
This kumquat actually admitted that I wasn’t on her property, yet continued to talk shit so I’m like you know this is harassment, right? If you just admit that I’m not on your property, then tf are you bothering me for?
SHE THEN PROCEEDS TO GRABBING AT ME AND MY PHONE LIKE A BANANA NUT MUFFIN. NOT ONCE BUT TWICE. I gave her two grabs before I punched her dead in her head, AND THEN IM SUDDENLY THE BAD GUY. To make a long story short, this is Florida, she was the aggressor FOR SURE and she got arrested for assault💁🏽
The funny thing is is that I wasn’t going to press charges initially, because she’s well into her golden years and just got clocked in her dome by an angry black stick. You would think that would teach anyone a lesson, right? Naw.
The cops went and got a statement from her and came back and one was like….are you SURE you don’t wanna press charges? She was literally telling them that they couldn’t arrest her and all this noise so NO, she didn’t learn a lesson.
If you’re wondering where the hashtag came from, the Black woman’s dog, named Mojito, had moved toward the elderly woman, and as she was walking away from the scene, the Black woman called, “Move Mojito.” Hence the hashtag.
Afterward the Black woman called the police and the White woman ended up in handcuffs.
I’m sharing this video for a number of reasons.
This situation reminds me of the incidents surrounding Trayvon Martin’s death. Like Trayvon, Mrs. America was minding her business, walking her dog, on the phone with her mother, like Trayvon was on the phone with Rachel Jeantel. And based on the color of both of their skin, a White person feels like they don’t belong there. Even though Trayvon was in his father’s neighborhood and MrsAmerica was visiting her man. Said White person wants to confront the intruder to let them know they are not wanted. Then when the situation escalates to violence, suddenly the White person who initiated the altercation, plays victim.
This older White woman couldn’t believe that this woman hit her after she grabbed her, just like George Zimmerman couldn’t believe Trayvon was defending himself after he was following him, after he likely attacked him.
The only difference in this situation is that MrsAmerica had the good sense to record the altercation. Which is another argument for not only police body cameras but for recording hostile situations with people who are clearly racist, who clearly feel entitled to space that does not belong to them.
This is also a lesson to White folks. Keep your muthafriggin’ hands to yourself. It was a lesson we should have mastered in kindergarten but obviously it either didn’t take or was overridded by privilege and feelings of entitlement. Either way, let this video and the aftermath, the woman in handcuffs, serve as a very necessary reminder.
I can’t help but count this video and the message behind it as a victory for Black folks and Black women specifically. I’m very proud of the way MrsAmerica handled herself in this situation. I don’t advocate violence but I also don’t believe in letting someone unjustly manhandle you, while you stand idly by, waiting for and accepting whatever they want to give you. I’m proud that she didn’t cower to this woman. I’m grateful that she thought to hang up with her mother so she could record. Heaven only knows what would have happened if she hadn’t. And honestly, I’m thankful for a video that corroborates what Black folks have been saying since we were first kidnapped and brought to this country. More of than not, it’s not a Black person breaking a law, behaving badly or intimidating a White person that ignites their ire and indignation. It’s us seeking to live our lives in peace, in their presence, that makes them and their space feel threatened. And this video lets folks with that attitude know, it’s no longer going to fly.
I’ll be anxiously awaiting my #MoveMojito t-shirt.
As told to Veronica Wells
This campaign cycle has really shown a lot of people’s true colors. There are the lurking he-man-woman-haters who oppose Hillary for the simple fact that she has a vagina. The the shallow and ageist among us who believe Bernie Sanders shouldn’t be president, not because he’s unqualified, but because he’s not attractive or might have a heart attack in office. And the worst of them, the Donald Trump supporters. While it would seem that anyone with common sense couldn’t support a candidate who is lacking not only in diplomacy but basic human decency. Then again, you know what they say. Common sense ain’t all that common.
There’s nothing worse than regarding someone as intelligent, kind and charismatic only to have that original impression completely demolished.
I work for an internet startup company. And my boss was the intelligent, kind and charismatic one. He is honestly, hands down the best supervisor I’ve ever had. Not only did he know his job, he was invested in making sure his employees had the resources and proper environment to ensure that they could perform to the best of their ability. After I had been there for some years, he was the one who came to me and suggested that I go out for a new position with more money and more responsibilities.
Because he was so heavily involved, whenever he noticed that I was feeling down about something that had happened in my personal life, he went out of his way to provide solutions. Just an all around, cool, White dude.
I never noticed how conservative my boss was because we never really talked about politics. But all of that changed when President Obama was running for reelection. That’s when all the contempt came out. All of a sudden the water cooler conversation was dominated by the ways in which my boss found President Obama to be incompetent and deplorable. I shrugged it off. There was nothing wrong with being cool with a Republican.
But Lord knows, if Mitt Romney had won that election things might have been different. Thankfully, I never got a chance to witness that.
I thought things were bad in 2012, but 2016 has proven to be even more ridiculous. The Republicans seemed to have literally no one worthy of the presidency. (Maybe Jeb Bush…but you saw how that worked out.) The candidates were so bad, I thought even my boss would have to admit that he would have to switch teams and vote Democrat for the first time in his life.
I was mistaken.
A couple of weeks ago, he told us he was taking off work to visit some family members in South Carolina. But a few days later, I learned the real reason why he was down there. My boss, the man I had trusted and even confided in, sent me and several other employees, many of them non-White, pictures from a Donald Trump rally. Not a Trump rally he just so happened to pass on his way to some other, more morally befitting event, a Trump rally he was attending. And not in protest.
Cheesing and grinning in front of campaign posters, my boss sent a message along with the images saying, “You guys are looking at the name of your next president.” When someone asked him why he was supporting such an uncouth bigot, my beloved boss said that he’s tired of the same old political tricks and rhetoric. He was sure that Trump would ‘tell it like it is’ in order to change America. My boss said Donald Trump was the only one who could “make a difference.”
I didn’t respond to the text and instead removed myself from the fruitless conversation. A man who supported Trump is obviously a man beyond reason.
I’m so disappointed. So much so that in my free time, I find myself thinking back to any signs of delusion or intolerance that I may have missed. It had to have been there. After all, I don’t know how any White person could be for Trump and not be racist.
Are you sure you know when you’re saying something racist? Even the most PC of persons has thought of an inappropriate stereotype from time to time. Negativity can be hard to shake even when you’re trying to be a good person. But we don’t all know when we’re being racist.
Some of these commonly used phrases sound completely harmless, but they weren’t always so. Once upon a time they were racial slurs for African-Americans, Irish and even ancient people. But the real question is, when do you get far enough from the past to not feel offended any more?
It’s probably not necessary to stop saying a word that was used as an insult shortly after Christ was born. But what about the rest of these phrases? Read on to at least know the history of the words we use and decide for yourself which ones are insulting and which ones are not (and share them with us in the comments section).
AT&T confirmed on Tuesday that it has fired company president Aaron Slator, who is currently immersed in a $100 million racial discrimination case, The Huffington Post reports.
Slator, head of the company’s content and advertising department, allegedly used his work phone to send out racially insensitive images. According to International Business Times, one of the photos found on Slator’s phone featured an African child dancing with the caption, “It’s Friday N*****s.” The AT&T president reportedly referred to the meme as an “oldie but a goodie.”
The photos were found by an assistant who was instructed to transfer Slator’s phone data into a new device.
A lawsuit was filed against Slator by Knoyme King, a 50-year-old Black female employee. “Slator harbors obvious and deep-seated racial animus toward African Americans,” the lawsuit said. “Slator’s decisions regarding hiring, firing, promotions and raises are infected by his racism.”
King, who spent 30 years building her career at AT&T, asserts that she was hindered because the company favored less-qualified, “non-African-American” employees.
According to the lawsuit, AT&T turned a blind eye to discriminatory practices within the company:
“The appropriate reaction – the morally responsible and legally required one – would have been for AT&T to take steps to remedy this past, and to prevent future, racism by its top television content executive,…
“AT&T did not do this. Instead, AT&T’s engaged in an illegal cover-up, to ensure that its racism remained hidden-even at the expense of long-term, loyal African American employees.”
In response, AT&T kicked Slator off his presidential pedestal, saying, “There is no place for demeaning behavior within AT&T, and we regret the action was not taken earlier.”
King’s lawyer, Louis Miller, said this case is more than just one image and one executive. It’s a problem that permeates the telecommunications giant as a whole: “These images and issues were reported a year and a half ago, and the company swept them under the rug,” he said.
AT&T CEO Randall Stephenson, board member Joyce Roche, and other executives are also named as defendants in the suit.
It’s almost easy to forget just how racist America used to be — until you hear the origins of most of your favorite nursery rhymes. Now that we’ve stopped teaching kids catchy racist tunes, do you keep singing the cleaned-up version?
Late Friday night, the pop icon known as Madonna was feeling proud of her 13-year-old son Rocco and his MMA-style workout so she posted a picture of him on Instagram. Many parents are proud of their kids, right? Right. But the problem with her picture was the caption:
If you’re having trouble seeing it, the caption reads: “No one messes with Dirty Soap. Mama said knock you out! #dis[n-word]
Her comments section immediately blew up, both with people criticizing her use of the word as well as people defending her use of the word. Well, it all seemed to annoy Madonna so she took down the original picture but put it back up with a new caption that said:
“Ok let me start this again. #get off my dick haters!”
Hmm. So people who are criticizing you for using what many consider a racial slur are now your haters? That’s an interesting way of seeing things.
But of course, as all things go when celebrities find themselves in major hot water, she then took that picture down too and according to Hip Hop Wired, she apologized for it all on Saturday:
“I am sorry if I offended anyone with my use of the N-word on Instagram. It was not meant as a racial slur…I am not a racist. There’s no way to defend the use of the word. It was all about intention…It was used as a term of endearment toward my son who is white. I appreciate that it’s a provocative word and I apologize if it gave people the wrong impression. Forgive me.”
Be clear: Madonna is not apologizing for using the word, she’s apologizing to anyone who may have been offended by her using the word. This is obviously something she says on a regular basis under the guise of it being a “term of endearment.”
Madonna is also the mother of two black children and many immediately questioned how she speaks around them.
Here’s thing: If you’re going to say something, stand by it. There’s no way Madonna didn’t know that her posting that word would start this type of uproar. If you’re bold enough to use it, then be bold enough to stick by it and keep it up. Apologies are unnecessary when they’re empty and not truly sincere.
What do you think? Is Madonna wrong for using the n-word or is it okay for everybody to use it freely?
Don Lemon Questions If “Thug” Is A Racist Term & Says Don’t Act Like A Thug If You Don’t Want To Be Treated Like One!
Let’s be honest: There are few things Don Lemon says nowadays that don’t make us side eye him. He can utter the exact same words you’ve said on the same topic and somehow, he will be hated for it. But, it hasn’t stopped him and this time, he’s continuing his coverage on the Nebraska toddler who has been called a “thug baby” by much of the world.
On Friday night, Lemon decided to tackle it from a different angle, this time asking if the term “thug” was racist. He specifically questioned if it was a racist because it was used to describe the innocent two year old child. He pointed out that while many in the hip-hop community have used to the word in their music, it is not relegated to that genre and went to on to show that every ethnicity and class type has used the term at one point or another.
Lemon added that while he isn’t sure if the Omaha police posted the video with a racist mindset but if they did:
“Why not take the outrage you have behind that and use the energy for good to actually stop a detrimental cycle of any name? Why take ownership of thuggery? There’s nothing flattering or enticing about being a thug. And why get mad that someone calls you the very same name you call yourself? If you don’t want to treated like a thug or considered one, then don’t act like one. That’s the message that parents should be sending to their children.”
What do you think about Don Lemon’s comments?
Don’t you hate it when people only apologize for something because they got caught and not because they’re actually really sorry. That sounds like the case with now former public relations executive Justine Sacco.
Sacco had been “living the life” in New York City as the Communications Director for InterActiv Corp (IAC). On Friday, right before she took off to South Africa, she tweeted the following:
This caused one of the biggest social uproars I’ve seen in some time. At the time, IAC did not openly say they fired her when they released their statement about how inappropriate the joke was, but you knew it was coming (and it officially did on Friday). The big joke was that Sacco was on a flight and had no idea what was happening to her life. On Twitter, the top trending topic on Friday night was #HasJustineLandedYet.
Once she finally landed in South Africa, she found out that not only had she been let go from IAC. but she’d also made it to national news and everyone was talking about her…in a not so good way.
But now Justine Sacco is speaking out and has released the following statement, according to ABC News:
“Words cannot express how sorry I am, and how necessary it is for me to apologize to the people of South Africa, who I have offended due to a needless and careless tweet,” Sacco said in the statement. “There is an AIDS crisis taking place in this country, that we read about in America, but do not live with or face on a continuous basis. Unfortunately, it is terribly easy to be cavalier about an epidemic that one has never witnessed firsthand.
“For being insensitive to this crisis — which does not discriminate by race, gender or sexual orientation, but which terrifies us all uniformly — and to the millions of people living with the virus, I am ashamed…”
She went on to admit that her father is South African and she cherishes her time there when she visits.
Yeah, okay lady. You tweeted something foul, you got caught, you lost your job and now you’re apologetic because your “joke” blew up in the worst way.
When will people learn?
With a chaotic media frenzy crowding the hospital that houses former South African President Nelson Mandela, his oldest daughter Makaziwe is fed up. She simply wants the media, who are anxious to snap newsworthy photos and grab juicy interviews, to leave her ailing father in peace, reports the Huffington Post.
“Vultures” is what she called the foreign media in a South African interview. Makaziwe looked down on them for invading the privacy of her revolutionary anti-apartheid leader father.
“They are standing right there in the aisle,” she told the interviewer. “You cannot even enter [the] hospital and you can’t even go out of the hospital because they are making themselves such a nuisance.”
Makaziwe adds that if people truly care about Mandela, then they should respect him. She went so far as to refer to the media as “racist.” She notes that the media didn’t react so intensely for the death of Margaret Thatcher—a former White British prime minister. “I don’t know how people come here and violate everything,” she said in International Business Times. “When Margaret Thatcher was sick in [the] hospital, I didn’t see this kind of media frenzy where people crossed boundaries.”
She likened the media to the animal world — lurkers who wait for the lion to devour the buffalo, “waiting there for the last of the carcass,” The Week added.
While President Barack Obama was traveling to South Africa yesterday, he and the First Lady met with members of Mandela’s family. In accordance with their wishes, he didn’t visit Mandela in the hospital.
“I expressed my hope that Madiba draws peace and comfort from the time that he is spending with loved ones, and also expressed my heartfelt support for the entire family as they work through this difficult time. I also reaffirmed the profound impact that his legacy has had in building a free South Africa, and in inspiring people around the world – including me,” said the President in a statement.
On the condition of her father, Makaziwe says that “it doesn’t look good, I’m not going to lie,” in the interview. This is contrary to Winnie Madikizela-Mandela’s recent statement about Mandela showing improvement. But, according to Makaziwe, “when you touch him, he responds and I think for us, as his progeny, as long as [Mandela] is still responding…I think that gives us hope.”
Even as Mandela clings to life, the family drama continues, with his grandson Mandla (who’s also the chief of the Mvezo area in the Eastern Cape Province) fighting to have the bodies of three of Mandela’s deceased children moved. The family dispute was prompted by Mandela’s request to be buried next to them, reports the Los Angeles Times.
We wondered if this day would come and it looks like it is finally here. According to Talking Points’ National Affairs Reporter Hunter Walker, Paula Deen has been given the axe following the eruption of her racial scandal earlier this week. Walker broke the news on Twitter, saying:
RT @hunterw Statement from Food Network spokesman:Food Network will not renew Paula Deen’s contract when it expires at the end of this month
— MadameNoire (@MadameNoire) June 21, 2013
Earlier this week, the National Enquirer blew the lid off of a $1.2 million lawsuit alleging the chef had used the n-word numerous times, habitually made racial jokes, and treated her black workers as slaves. Initially the Food Network said they would monitor the situation, but now they’ve decided to take action and fire southern favorite from their station. Good move!
Check out her irrelevant (second) apology below.