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Dear Dr. Sherry,
I’m a 33-year-old female and I’ve been in a relationship with my boyfriend for three years now. I moved in with him after the first year, and now I’m ready to take the relationship to the next level. I got tired of waiting for the next step, so I proposed to him. The first time I did it he laughed, but it was after the first year, so I waited. The second time, he gave me some reasons why we couldn’t get married. (One reason was because I asked him.) I don’t want to be the eternal girlfriend, so I’m thinking of leaving him. Am I moving too fast or am I wasting my time? Please help!
Read Dr. Sherry’s response at Essence.com
Justin Timberlake has turned into Inspector Gadget for his next music video!
Today, Ellen DeGeneres announced that the “Mirrors” singer called to ask her to reveal an interesting clip from his new music video, “Not a Bad Thing.” Instead of the singer capturing his famous choreographed danced move, his new music video is actually a documentary. The video is based on a true story of a couple who recently got engaged on New York City’s Long Island Railroad on January 12, 2014. The prospective groom used one of Timberlake’s songs to propose to his bride-to-be.
A team of people hunt for this happy couple, passing out flyers and going door to door. But the team of filmmakers isn’t able to ferret out the pair. The upside? They do run into several other couples with adorable, inspiring love stories.
The clip on the DeGeneres show ended with a: “to be continued…” cliffhanger. Timberlake’s documentary is heartfelt and gives viewers the real about the hard work love requires. After it ended, Ellen encouraged people who know the couple to call into her show. Hopefully Mr. Timberlake will find the engaged couple to feature in his video.
Check out Timberlake’s “Not A Bad Thing” video, below.
Jacques Bastien is the founder of social media agency, Boogie. He’s also one of most persistent marriage proposers ever.
It took Bastien four ambiguous proposals to his girlfriend Dahcia Lyons before really going for it on the fifth. Throughout the week, he combined their love for social media and digital campaigning to get his girlfriend’s attention (with some singing included, of course).
Before the actual proposal, Bastien even created a website for Lyons.
To watch how he combines all these things in five memorable proposals, check out the video above — because the fifth time’s the charm, right?
Read more about this proposal story at BlackVoices.com
He’s going to pop the question so the question for you is, should you say “I do”? Once the ring is out, there’s a lot of pressure to say yes, but not every relationship is meant to last forever. Sometimes a proposal is actually the perfect time to say “I don’t.” Here are 15 reasons to turn down a marriage proposal.
I had always been sure I wanted to get married, and the longer I dated Dean, the more sure I was that he was the right one for me. That is…until I got engaged.
Dean’s proposal wasn’t a surprise. I was too nosey to not know it was happening, and I enthusiastically said yes the moment he asked. However, once it happened (in a sweet and thoughtful way, I should add), I began to feel these nagging questions eating away at me: Did I really want to be married? Would we be any good at it?
I love Dean, but in the bright light of wedding planning I found myself picking him apart. Every minor misstep seemed like a warning sign urging me to think twice. When he got my coffee order wrong, I accused him of never listening to me; when he was running late the night we had dinner plans with my friends, I screamed that he didn’t value my time. He usually fell asleep before me and he woke up early, which I used as an example of our lives being out of sync. Everyday things that never mattered before were suddenly turning into major crises.
The nagging doubt I was feeling was also being fed by external sources. Two of my close friends had recently divorced their husbands, and my best friend at work was finalizing her split at the same time as I was deep in the throes of planning my union. Side by side, we would be on the telephone: me with the caterers, her with her attorney. On their good days, my newly single friends were excited for me and Dean, but on their bad days they were cautiously critical of the institution of marriage. They had their horror stories and they didn’t always filter them for my benefit.
It seemed as if everyone—my friends, the characters in my book club book (Jane Green’s Beach House) to newsmakers (John Edwards, Mel Gibson, David Letterman, and um, Tiger!) —was having affairs or leaving their spouses.
Read more on this woman’s engagement at YourTango.com
Chicago Bulls cheerleader Ariana Rosado received the shock of her life during Thursday night’s Bulls-Heat game when the Luvabulls squad’s third-quarter routine didn’t go quite as planned. And luckily for us, it was all caught on tape! At the beginning of the video, Ariana’s boyfriend, Shane Zackery appears backstage explaining that he plans to propose to her.
“As you can see, I’m currently sitting backstage. Tonight, I’m going to surprise my girlfriend, Ariana, who is a Luvabull, and I’m actually going to propose to her. We’re going to do this in the third quarter during one of their performances. So if you can, please stay in your seat and let’s make this a memorable night,” Shane says.
The video then cuts to the dance performance. Not even a full minute into the routine, Ariana’s dance team take an unexpected choreographical turn and leave her confused, standing alone in the middle of the basketball court as Bruno Mars’ “Marry You” begins playing. Bulls mascot Benny the Bull the makes his way onto the court, pulling up a chair for Ariana to sit down in. A clearly confused Ariana is then rejoined on the the court by her fellow dancers and two other inflatable Bulls mascots. Out of one of the costumes comes Shane. You can probably guess what happens next.
Check out footage of the adorable proposal on the next page.
Wedding rings are meant to be a symbol of the union of two souls, but no two souls are created equal, in fact some are down right quirky. Here are 14 of the weirdest engagement rings that real couples wear proudly.
After your man pops the question, you’ll be flashing that left hand whenever you can and bringing up the proposal story every chance you get. But you won’t be the only one acting a little silly after getting engaged. Here are 14 little ways your guy might change after popping the question. Don’t worry; they’re not permanent.
In a perfect world, people would just be happy for you when you get engaged. But most times when you show someone a ring, their thoughts aren’t about you; they’re about themselves. And they’ll project just about any negativity they have swirling around in the love department of their brains onto your happiness. Here are 7 rude ways people will respond to your engagement, and how to react.
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. He brings up an engagement ring every week, but he hasn’t asked me to marry him yet. When he brings it up, I just look at him and smile. I make more money than he does, and now I don’t know if he is manipulating me into thinking that he is going to propose or not. I’ve set a timeline of two and a half years and if there’s no proposal, I’m walking. I’m starting to think that he doesn’t have any money for the ring, so shes just buying time. Or, what if he’s using me? What do you think? Help.
Read Dr. Sherry’s answer at Essence.com